I have found someone!

To all the folks who felt it was necessary to send me hate mail because of my profile....GET A LIFE...move on to another profile if you can not read the sarcasm that was intended.


I have been reading profiles here for a few weeks now and I have to say I can't decide if I'm amused or horrified. I don't believe I read even one positive profile. I do have to admit thou after having been a member for a while now I do understand the negativity. I read a profile that said you could have no friends or family if you wanted to be with that guy. (major red flag) the scary part was that, that guy was on like 30 favorites lists. Something else I have noticed is that "most" guys on here say that honesty and loyalty are the most important things in a relationship. Well, how can you have those with out communication? Communication is the most important thing in ANY relationship, with out it you can have nothing else. One more thing, why don't the guys take the time to fill out the profiles? don't you understand that you are telling us that you are lazy and not willing to make any effort at all. I don't mean to be critical but it's not like anybody reads these anyway, Can't tell you how many time's I have been contacted to "hook up" or asked for a photo. LOL this alone tells me that they didn't read my profile. I had one guy IM me telling me that if I put a photo up I would get a lot more mail. Now, I'm thinking this has got to be the stupidest person in the world, well maybe one of them. If you are interested in someone, why would you contact them to either critique them on the profile they have or to tell them how to get more people? Now with my little rant said I have one more question ... Are there any guys here who are not here just to play games?
I'm a BBW! Deal with it, I'm not 200 lbs just fluffy. I love the rain and thunderstorms, I love snow storms. I want to travel. I do not mean to Macon or Atlanta either, I want to see the wold. I want to learn to ski. I'm in the process of redoing my house, myself. I'm looking for someone who has the same interests as me. I'm looking for someone who can communicate and carry on a conversation (no they aren't the same thing) Someone who is honest, trust worthy, loyal and open minded. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind that I have a child. He can have kids as well. I love kids I just don't want to give birth ever again lol. Someone who is not going to compare me to others or judge me for the wrongs others have committed. Someone who will understand that I am an individual and that I have feelings. Someone who is truly interested in me and has time for me. I'm looking for someone who has a positive attitude and out look on life. Someone with a sense of humor and a serious side. I have a sense of humor and I'm very sarcastic. I'm basically just tired of being alone. I want someone who I can spend time with and holidays with. I'm kind of old fashond to a point as I wont email you unless you have emailed me. If we get to IM's I will not IM you when you come online I will wait for you to IM me, same with the phone. Now something on the negative side. I DO NOT have a picture to share. I'm not barbie but I'm not an ogar either. I'm a bbw I have very long brown hair and brown eyes. I have piercings, 2 of them, one in each ear, got you didn't I? I'm a plain Jane, don't know what else to say.
Please do not contact me if you are looking for a one night stand or a F*** buddy. I have stated what I'm looking for and I mean it!

Depends on the people involved. However if it involves food I can tell you that I like my food cooked! I can also tell you that I will be ordering food, meaning that if you want a house salad person then you got the wrong girl. The house salad would be nice before the steak gets there.