47 y/o divorced male with two boys (14 & 19) looking to live again. I enjoy anything outdoors, sports minded and have a spontaniety level that far exceeeds the average human being. I am looking for a friend and companion to explore life with. I am usually found on land, sea or air. I am constantly on the go. I own my own boat and enjoy trips to Catalina on a regular basis. While a quiet night at home is always nice, dinner, a fireplace and a special someone, the ambience of being somewhere, anywhere is always an added surprise.

I work in the film and television industry and am currently developing a baseball adult fantasy camp. I am sincerely happy in my job and don't long to be anywhere else, I love the people I work with. I played professional baseball until 1991 at the minor league level and wouldn't trade the experiences for anything, the people I met and teammates and friends I made have become long lasting and meaningful.

I am dad to the most incredible 14 year old boy on the planet, I idolize him and wish I could be as intuitive and insightful as he has been over the last 7 years. A tough ending to a incredible relationship has left me quite confused. My oldest son has had a rough time in such a short life and has only recently joined me after his mom's passing.

I love animals, I own four small white dogs, resembling poodles if you must, I have been known to tell people that they are rare white miniature Rottweilers. Not trying to be dishonest about them but honestly, shouldn't I be walking a German Sheperd or a Newfoundland ?? But then 4 Bichons do equal one whole complete dog....or so I'm told

I am a romantic person by nature and enjoy everything about being in love as well as the best parts of falling in love...the thing I miss more than anything was being the "rock" in a life.....if I had one sentence to sell myself it would be "don't be afraid to close your eyes and be led to places you didn't know existed" My partner has no fears, you agree that playful jealously has it moments, petty arguments bore us, you are confident, caring, outgoing, spontaneous, honest, fun, the life of the party and shy and reserved at the same time...I desire a girl/woman/lady with the "Princess Complex", a independent woman who expects her doors to be opened and have her cigarette lit, one who expects the crowd to stop and admire her when she walks into a room....a woman who can't be told enough how beautiful or important she is....all of this without ever giving up her independence, beliefs and what she wants out of life.

My musical tastes are vast, my ipod contains over 1000 songs from ACDC to ZZ Top and everything in between including a touch of alternative, classic rock, country, ballads, love songs, oldies, top 40, hard to find music that I don't like.

If i'm not on the boat, I am at a comedy club as laughter cures all ills, I enjoy a great meal at maybe a not so glamourous place, a hole in the wall is fine provided the company is right, Jeans and a shirt are my usual attire although, if necessary I can dress it up, it just isn't me and I avoid that at all costs.....I went to an industry awards show in jeans and a button up shirt without a second thought, I am not here to impress others.

I survived a horrific car accident in 2004 which left me with a broken back, neck, hip, shoulder and sternum. I was essentially killed in the accident and revived in a medevac helicopter to which I am eternally grateful for not only the efforts of the personnel but for the transformation it made in my life. I have completely recovered from the accident and then some.

Finally, I am not at a crossroads in my life, I think that part of life passed me by. I am happy, resilient, looking for friends first and always, anything after that is a added surprise. I think "chemistry" is one of the most overused and abused words in dating...period, a person can make up chemistry as they go with each and every person, instinct and trusting the heart and mind are the keys to making friends. I often ask myself if "blind instinct" came into play. would I consider dating or being in love with this person if I were blind, that is how you know....the eyes deceive what the heart already believes.....whew !!! Okay, I'm done....lol

Make it an evening with a twist, it can't just be dinner, drinking and dancing, it must have a sincere approach and it's own uniqueness....there has to be time to investigate each other and seek out the attraction, maybe the county fair, a day trip to San Diego, a concert, a bike ride....anything but normal...