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motownmaniax : Happy Fall! ;-)
City
Chesterfield, MI Michigan
Sign
Virgo
Height
6' 1" (185 cm)
Age
49 year old Man
Smoker?
No
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Brown hair
Body Type
Average
Religion
Catholic
N/A
Late July 2008
dating
                
 
 
I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Friends

Do you drink?
Socially
Marital Status
Single
Profession
Computer Consultant
Smarts
Bachelors degree
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
No
Do you have a car?
Yes
 
Interests
MUSIC MUSIC MUSICArtsLiterature
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About Me
Local Holiday POF Party! => http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13441331.aspx

Big Music Lover Here! Love everything from the Sex Pistols to Shostakovich, Brazilian Jazz, Appalachian Folk, Dance, Ambient Electronica, Sinatra, 70's Punk, Blues, Broadway tunes, classic Jamaican Reggae, and all things in-between.

WINGS WIN THE 2008 STANLEY CUP! .... FOURTH TIME IN 11 YEARS .... CAN YA SAY DYNASTY!
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Being Single

Seems the biggest questions I get center on "why" I'm single, with barely masked overtones of sarcasm that hide accusations I must be a player, date loads of women, and love the single life. How little you women know ~wink. To dispel some of the more outrageous illusions let me please set the record straight.

I consider myself attractive, but not excessively so (I see myself naked in the mirror every morning, so will NEVER get carried away with Internet flattery). I consider myself intelligent, but no genius. I don't have a lot of hobbies or exotic talents; I'm no Renaissance Man. I make modest money, enough to live on and pay for occasional indulgences, but NOT enough to equal the kind of high maintenance lifestyle most women my age seem addicted to and demand from a partner. I don't own a flashy car, or a boat, or jet down to Cabo every six months, so please don't bother asking (is Cabo the current hotspot for the sunfried set or what?...I seem to run across it in a lot in profile pics). If these types of things are that important to you please stop reading right now and move on.

I'm just average, plain and simple. I understand that's not a ringing endorsement or enticement to contact me, but I'm also not controlling, arrogant, demanding, superficial, phony, crude, sex-crazed, foul-mouthed and narcissistic. I won't treat you like a plaything or a possession. I'm about as real and straightforward as you can get. Hopefully, it's "that" part that will get your attention.

I really don't date that much -- too expensive, and most potentials simply live too far away. Trying to find a local, smart, attractive, classy woman in my age range that isn't a party animal or caught up in a shallow, materialistic, hedonistic lifestyle, and puts forth an honest and unselfish effort to date, is like finding a needle in a haystack. If you believe you're what I'm looking for please don't "tell" me, "prove" it.

I've learned by hard experience to set my sights lower, so now I'll just say this: Only here for friends (and that does NOT mean sex...lol). If I meet someone and we have "mutual" attraction AND compatibility, we'll see where it takes us.
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MORE INFO: Big cat lover. Also on My Space under the same username, motownmaniax. I enjoy doing some simple graphic design regarding party threads in the forums. To get to know more about me, please read up on my forums posting history at this link:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/usermessages.aspx?user_Id=2263985

MAJOR IRRITANT: Women who write wanting to explore a relationship but have zero pics and/or barely anything written on their profiles. Sheesh, give me "something" to go on, Ladies? I use my maximum photo limit and put a lot of thought and effort into my profile for a reason, to give YOU a better feel for me as a person. Is it too much to expect a little in return? Please think about this "before" writing me.

First Date
Prefer to meet women between the ages of 40 and 60. Non-Smokers, please. I don't mind corresponding with anyone, but don't have much in common with teenyboppers and immature partiers (which can be any age it seems...lol).

First meetings are for getting to know one another just a little bit better. You can't possibly "know" a person after one meet, but you can ask questions and get a feel for what the other person is looking for.

I'm not a huge fan of emailing or phoning back and forth. If there's initial interest from both people my motto is to just go ahead and meet. The quicker the better (we're not getting any younger..lol). There are literally tons of coffee shops and restaurants in the metro Detroit area, so the choice of where should NOT be a problem. I can't promise chemistry, from "either" end, but that's the chance we all take with meeting someone, right? The key is to meet face to face. If we can't get past who we are in person the rest doesn't really matter, does it?
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