I am far from shy, I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am what some call "spunky", but then the sarcasm always confuses them. I love spending time with family and friends, as they are the constants in my life. Life happens while people spend time planning it... so with that said, I live life with the view that I may regret not living life to its fullest, rather than regret what may happen if I do(something like act on a leap of faith). I have not and never will cheat, I think its the behavior of a coward, and a bad way to end a good friendship. Want to immensely upset me, lie. I am extremly open, but also able to be confided with. I believe in what goes around comes around, just as what goes up must come down .

I love to help people, whether it be helping my dog find her tail(yes, she is a person too)or help a friend in the middle of the night with a "lets met for coffee and talk about it" moment. I love kids, I am enjoying life as a single at the present time, as I LOVE to sleep in if its not a morning that I am invited to go fishing. Kids= NO SLEEP PAST 9AM. When ever I think of how cute babies are, I borrow/adopt my cousins for the day, GREAT SOURCE OF BIRTH CONTROL!

I honestly will try anything once, with three little rules; it cannot consist of mushrooms(gross me out), void my life insurance plan or require me to repent more than 30 minutes, feasible, I think so.


Things that are important to me:
A guy that family means a lot to, but that likes time alone. A guys family and friends are important, the parents especially. I love my life as it is, and would love to share it with someone. I feel bad for people who feel incomplete without a relationship; its not until we are content as individuals... that we have something to offer the opposite sex(yes, as indicated above, I am only interested in males). I know there are a lot of single dad's on this site and I give you a lot of credit. The whole divorced/ with children thing really throws me for a loop and I have to think about responding to those with either or both. I consider marriage as a sacrament and am disgusted by the divorce rate! I have never been married, although I think people give up too fast or never thought that a life long relationship would require WORK. Some men have a past that needs not be justified, but that is far and few between. Not to sound egotistic, but I really feel that I am at the age where I want to meet someone that would be having marriage and parenthood as a first-time experiance. I cannot imagine being the size of a truck, wobbling and waddling in drug-free labor and having my husband look at me and tell me that "everything is going to be okay... that last time with his other child's mother.. it only took 2 more hours and one good cut".

I love to fish.. but sometimes taking the great big fish off the hook grosses me out and I need help from a strong guy. I can handle postmortem care, but could never kill a bug or touch one...Clean teeth are a must for any guy,and boys... NO TIGHTY WHITIES! Ohhhhh, AND must LOVE icecream.



Oh, and another short but meaningful note: I am not a "holy roller" by any means. I am a Christian and feel that religion/faith is important in my life. From other commentary in my profile this may sound as if I am being a tad blasphemous, but I want to raise a family in a Christian home, where the father is the main disciplinarian and spiritual leader. I am fun loving and a bit goofy, but I know how to put my foot down, after all.. I survived teaching preschool :). I really believe that one's legacy that is left behind is their children, and therefore they should be what is invested in most. For now.. I am working on starting a college and career group with parishioners at my church, and I have participated on mission trips in the past and look forward to those in the future. Giving back is VERY important to me. Laziness, greed and those who swindle erk me.



People that annoy me:
Those that post upper body shots(as if their bottom halve are as tone and built.. its just for show and does not impress me); guys that give their sob story of previous relationships within the first paragraph of their profile..(move on); those with pictures with the person sticking their tongue out or giving the new international "shocker" symbol(sometimes funny, but never tasteful as a first impression), guys that post that they do not smoke(and do indeed smell/taste like ashtrays), People that don't no how too spel the write whey(or use proper words.. improperly such as "however", where/were/we're, there/ their/they're, too/to, and recently very/vary). My major is not in English.. but this is basic knowledge.. the dell support people would put ya'll to shame.

First of all, not to call it a "first date":shutters:. It really depends on the weather and the season, as I am for anything as long as hail is not in the picture. I think sitting over some drinks(alcohol, frap's, or koolaid)is nice, but sometimes that is more necessary after a visit to a comedy show or something that allows each person to see true character of their date(when they laugh, or how they react to certain jokes about life issues).