ABOUT ME: (The "Bait")
I crave intimacy and romance, the comforts of close companionship, and the dependability of a mutually respectful friendship. Like everyone here, I want to meet and date, but I aspire to one day finally find a loving and sharing relationship with that special one someone. I appreciate most all genres of music, but my preferences lean to the Standards, Old Time R&R, Jazz & Blues, some Pop and C&W. I am neither the athletic or barbie doll type. (So I guess I have now scared off all the "jocks" and the "shallow Hals"). I do however, have an immense appreciation of nature. In fact I often indulge my freedom and independence in the quiet solitude of walking, biking, fishing, hiking or camping. That is not to say that I could not share any of these with someone as well. I enjoy reading, writing or photographing life around me. I nurture my gregarious side in the company of family and friends for dinners, music, movies, games, and other events and social get-togethers. Basically, I balance my natural tendancy towards a TypeA personality with my conflicting need to be more of a TypeB. I'm trying to be ever mindful of the harmony needed in my physical, mental and spiritual wellbeing. So yes, I attend Church (but not "religiously"); work out at the gym (when I can discipline myself enough to get there "regularly"); and try to give back through volunteer and community service work. The only other work I do at present is arduously attempting to eliminate the clutter in my life while struggling with a tendency to procrastinate. My method for dealing with almost any situation is by seeking or doling out as much humor as I or anyone around me can handle. There is no favorite teacher or famous person who inspired me. I get my inspiration and my greatest joy from being in the company of children or animals; as they are always eager to learn and love unconditionally. Now if I could only find those same qualities in a mate.
Signed, "Small Fish in a Big Pond"


ABOUT YOU: (The "Hook")
You do not smoke and either do not drink or at least you understand the concept of occasional social drinking. You are sensual and sensitive and though assertive, definitely non-aggressive. Are you able to compromise and/or at least agree to disagree? Do you feel that life is too short and too important to be wasting it on heated arguments or competitive debates that nobody really wins?
Are you well educated enough to be stimulating in your conversation and mentoring, yet still be aware that all the university degrees in the world can be a poor substitute for common sense intellect, good manners and respect for others feelings? How YOU see yourself is more important to me than how you THINK others see you. You are someone with a sense of humour in your own right as well as being appreciative of mine (bearing in mind that we can pick up a lot on a person's character by what or who they laugh at). You may also have a bit of an adventurous and spontaneous side. Signed, "Networth Knowing"


ABOUT US: (The "Prize Catch")
So we've met, we are hitting it off. We date, doing the things we both enjoy, as well as trying out new things, meet each other's friends and family, make new ones. There are sparks whenever we're together. We begin to see and learn more about each other and eventually even take off the "rose-colored" glasses we all wear at the start and find we still like what we see. What next? How do we know it's become more than just dating and it may just be time for a long-term relationship? Well, for one thing, the same excitement, joy and closeness shared by a couple when they are out together will continue to extend and thrive when simply staying within the comforts of home as well. The intimacy would be felt in every room of a house in order for it to feel like home. Dating has heightened our senses. Now, can we continue to hear the sounds that excite and surround us as we cuddle on the couch in the livingroom while the music or a tv show plays, or just enjoy listening to each others voices in conversation? Can you take in the aromas that fill the kitchen and dining area while preparing, partaking and tidying up after a meal? Can you see each other laughing, being playful, or relaxing together in the family or other recreational room? Imagine feeling stripped free from inhibitions as well as clothes in the bathroom. And of course the bedroom would hold the sound of sighs brought about through the tenderness of a gentle touch, the taste of sweat and tears, brought on by endless passion and pleasures, and the warmth and comfort of two people brought together, side by side in blissfull sleep. Signed, "Koi No More" and "Happy as a Clam"

Is a first meeting considered a first date? Any mutually agreeable, public venue is alright for a first "meeting", whether it is simply to have coffee or some other adult beverage or a meal at a restaurant.

But a true first "date" should be something special - whether traditional and simple or something out of the ordinary. Take a flight to somewhere exotic or romantic for lunch (Fiji perhaps), then all aboard to cuddle in a Lalique glass panelled carriage on the Orient Express for a private dinner for two, followed by a walk along the Champs Elysées, in the City of Lights, or a gondola cruise of the canals in Venice. Ok, ok, this may be a little too extreme and over the top for a first date. Guess we'd have to agree on something a tad more practical. (Niagara Falls is still one of my favorite wonders of the world - and we have fireworks!) But maybe you get the idea. You want to be in a situation where you can become comfortable with each other and able to talk and perhaps feel romantic. A first date should give a glimpse of more than just a first impression, but rather more of a lasting impression.

No matter where or how that first meeting/date is to take place, I have 3 rules:
1. Show up!
2. Then talk AND listen to each other.
3. Relax and enjoy!
And maybe we just might want to have a second helping.


P.S. 1: Could someone out there please explain to me what the term "head games" means? I see it on so many profiles and I really just don't understand that term.
P.S. 2: Oh, and to some of you guys whose pics look so serious: For the Love of Life, smile!!

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