i read someones profile and he was commenting on the difference between men and women....he had read an article that stated that men (being the visual creatures that you are) usually feel an attraction first, but that women, by contrast, usually feels a "connection" first, then subsequently becomes more "attracted". I mean, you know that kind of special connection you sometimes feel... that mysterious compelling click that takes place right THERE....that is what i am looking for...so if you approach me sexually, you won't get anywhere....until i know you...

hi there....i am looking for a guy who has his priorites in order....and this is the kind of thing that i find attractive in a man: intelligence, gentle, fun, funny, athletic (very athletic is a bonus), attractive to me (all in the eyes of the beholder)...someone who is almost through with having kids or knows how to balance his life between work, kids and relationships....i offer the same to someone else and then some....i am not interested in endless online communication...so if that is what you are looking for, then we are not on the same page...

also, i like polite people...i will always respond to an email...i think that is only respectful to do when someone has been nice enough to write me a note...tell me, do you do the same????

thanks for taking a peek....and i wish you well...

smiles....

p.s. please do not put me on your fav list unless you intend to contact me...thanks...

i really enjoy being outdoors....and i love starbucks coffee...so either is a plus with me....then again, it is always nice to talk and run at the same time...

i do believe that when we first meet...we will feel that connection...it may not be a pyrotechnic display...but still some subversive yearning to learn more about the other ...i am waiting for just that intrigue....lets create some synergy

please spin me a web and take me with you....it just makes things easier

smiles.

p.s. i am looking for a local relationship..in the kitchener, waterloo or cambridge region....

p.p.s. my kids are older now...only one left and she is almost out of the house...so i am looking for a man who is wanting a relationship as a priority in his life....