1. I am a closet geek, I like learning stuff and teaching people stuff. If you ever talk to me you'll notice how I get excited if you talk about something I've researched or heard about.

2. I am former Air Force - I still can't believe I was in or how I ended up dealing with it. I'm crafty like that so I got out in two years and got all the good benefits still.

3. I am crafty, sneaky in a good way. I get the best deals, I find ways to get around things and I know how to deal with most situations anyone can encounter.

4. I'm REALLY not the type of guy that goes out to bars and such. I will go, do the wallflower thing but I'm not Mr. walk into a room and get everyone's attention. I do enjoy conversation though and if someone is not a complete idiot. I can be very captivating and I garner the attention of those who seek wisdom. I also try to find those with wisdom and will listen. Wisdom does not come with any kind of socio-economic status or college degrees - I've learned great things from all types of people.

5. I guess you can say I have it made - whatever that means. I have a house back in Nashville - and I plan on getting a little condo in downtown above some retail shop. I've wanted to do that since I was like 9 years old and I will finally be able too. I have a great career but I travel a lot, I mean a lot. I've been known to fly friends out to come and chill at whatever places I am working at though.

6. I am kind of the anti-everything. I like playing the devil's advocate and just putting some horns on and putting little spins on stuff. I have fun like that.

7. I am a dedicated relationship counselor. I can provide great details to people's relationships and I'm the guy that girls love to hate because I'm usually right. I guess I'm kind of like the Mac guy in "He's just not that into you."

8. I love my family and the older I get the more I respect what my parents did for me and how they raised me. Most people seem to have some kind of baggage relating to their relationships with their parents. Not I - They have stayed happily married - did a GREAT job of giving myself, my brother and sister a great childhood. I usually get along better with those that have had parents that are still married. No offense to those that have divorced parents.

9. I may not appear passionate at first but people who know me know that I am the most passionate person about life you could meet. I want to see the world - I want to learn more things - I want to be able to see more. I have 11 states left to see all 50 and I've been to 14 countries.

10. I do what I say I am going to do. Too many people in my generation talk about all their dreams but do jack squat about it. I just stay quiet and do my thing and I've noticed - I'm living the life I wanted to live.

I have a quirky sense of humor that most many not get. I can be very bullish on some of my views but I am willing to see other sides. I do work out and quit smoking and I'm back into the physical fitness style of life.

Things I want and will have soon. A condo in DT Charleston above a retail place on King Street or near. It has always been kind of an odd dream of mine since I was 12. It will be decked out with ultra-contemporary stuff and I am the anti-clutter freak. I love open spaces (It makes it so easy to clean.)

I really do want to meet someone special BUT - I am kind of the walled off type - Not because I don't want to let anyone if but because I haven't found someone I want to let in. I have been single for a long time and I have no qualms about being single or my emotional wellness being single. I am NOT looking to fill the void and chances are if you've had a boyfriend less than 3 months - you are probably the monkey brancher type I try to stay away from. (Omg, I just met this guy, and we are in love and is the best thing ever). I take a sip from the wine of reality and don't think I will have all kinds of uber butterflies but I do think I will have a great sense of comfort and partnership with that person. Butterflies do NOT keep a happy couple married for life. Partnership, dedication and withstanding love does.

You?

Geeky - smart - quirky - family - job - no kids - can call me out on my bull. I tend to like a just bit aggressive girls who will take me by the hand and show me some fun.

I am thinking a night in where I get too drunk, cry over my last girlfriend, tell you to hold me and pull the "I left my wallet at home trick" then drop you off - beg you to let me in - start crying and try to use the pity card for some ass. ;)

Or we can wear monkey suits - climb up trees with water balloons and try to hit the best dressed people. If you do something diabolical like bring red food dye for the water balloons, I will birth your children!

If I actually meet a girl off here worth it - I've been wanting to take a helicopter tour of Charleston. I'm dead serious.