At this point and time i'm just looking for an activity partner, no expectations and no strings attached. If something long term develops that would be great but as the old saying goes you can never have to many friends right? I think that the basis for a good relationship is to first develop a great friendship. I think that one of the best ways to describe myself would be to list my 10 guidelines on how I feel that all men should treat women. 1)Respect her philosophies, goals and ideals, she has a brain, listen to her ideas and remember them. Make her feel appreciated. 2)Talk with her not at her. Don't boss her around. Don't make her do anything that she doesn't want to do. 3)Ask her for advice and opinions. Let her talk, don't interrupt, be a good listener, include her in all decision making. 4)Be honest never lie to her, Be open about your feelings. Apologize for your mistakes. 5)Give her space, don't be a control freak. Remember that she has a life as well as other interest, give her support, and let her spend time with friends. 6)Be sensitive to her problems, Help her, show her that you care. 7)Don't call her names, never hit her, Treat her with respect caring and trust. 8)Don't compete with her, The two of you have different goals, There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man seeing a woman, who has more education or a more prestigious job. 9)Do fun things, don't bore her, don't forget to make her laugh. 10) Should you meet that special someone and the two of you decide to marry, I would also add this (A) A wife is not a housekeeper. You need to get off the couch and cook, clean and do the laundry, help her out remember that marriage is a partnership. (B) Should the two of you desire children, you should also help raise them: change diapers, clean them up, feed them, even get up in the middle of the night for them. (C) Never force your wife to do anything that she doesn't want to. No means No!!!!!!! I know that this is a bit long but it's how I truly feel that all women should be treated. As far as my ideal match goes, I would love to meet a nice attractive intelligent woman that knows what she wants out of life. A woman that will be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows together. I want a woman that understands the importance of these words: Honesty-Trust-Dependable-Faithful-Morals-Values. I would also love to meet a woman who understands how important the little things are in life. It seems to me that most people take these things for granted in this day and time. Lastly, I would like to point out that I am not perfect by any means and everything that I said above is really just common sense. If you think that this may be you drop me a line.

It would all depend on who I was going out with. If I knew what their likes and dislikes were it would be no problem to plan a romantic first date. I wouldn't want to take my date to a Steak House if she was a vegetarian. That's not my idea of a good first date. Quite naturally, you would want to take your date to somewhere that they really liked.