Humm..?why do i feel like the guy in the movie
..( should i cut the red wire or the White wire) ..
well hear it goes. Well first of all, i am a warm sensitive guy, my life is a open book, once we get to know each other,I unlike others..I have nothing to hide ..I going to take a chance here and see what happens.. I would love to meet one day a cute..loving, sweet,tender spirited women who loves to touch (Me)..soft voice is a plus..Kids ok ..Age is relative..is that to much to ask for!!? Are you afraid of dating or meeting someone because there are so many geeks and freaks out there Showing there members before there face ( who started that anyway??)..
Well im feeling the same way to.. 5’9 or 10 depending on which 7-11 im in.. dark short hair, brn eyes, mustache, short go-tee ( grew it just recently so if you dont like it just tell me..if you dont like facal hair.. that can be changed ) , clean cut, snappy dresser, and aways smell great.. 190 lbs, no body hair and no belly. the hair is short. straight white teeth, and when i smile i have dimples. Don't smoke/drugs/drink .. well socially on occasion .with a great health& dental plan.. lol Not into sitting around looking at a big screen looking at sports.unless its a big game or local team i guess what im saying im not a sports freak. i rather be looking at my women and do things with her..im a meat and potatoes kind of man but eat rabbit food too..because i know i should..Been there done that..i live in the vancouver area ..Im a hugger and a touchy feely kind of guy .. so if you don't like public displays of affection move on girl..
Im the kind of guy that well give you attention that other women will look at us and wish they had a relationship like us and will tell there boyfriends / husbands ( how come you don't do that for me!!or he is so sweet .. why don't you act like that..). ..Don’t worry I’m a gentlemen and a great guy to talk and have fun with ..im not a bozo kind of funny ..im a seinfeld /jim balushi with traces of Vince Von kind of funny..So your probably wondering who I am and what I do. and want to know a little about myself.. ok here it goes..for better or worse.. I think i am some what talkative.. if i have something to say..I'm a very social person..there are alot of things i like to do.. listen or burn music. play my keyboard, sing, read, study eschatology and apologetics. garage sales, antique shops, hike , bike, BBQ, explore Portland and its people, i like to sit at a community table at breakfast and yap..chess, backgammon, radio controlled model air planes, golf , tennis, walk, stare into a fire.. repair computers, learn new software. talk to my kids, dance , good at plumbing, carpentry, electrical, masonry, woodworking, auto repair, air-containing, appliance repair,ect. i love pets ,but dont have one ..i think they need attention that i can't give them..
I’m a engineer / designer / master cabinet maker and hopfully a pilot. .. I have been doing this all my life.. I ran a large furniture Mfg. in southern California of 100 +men.. building Oak Antique reproduction furniture that you would see at all these mom and pop oak retail stores for the 11 western states and some of the east coast markets. And some of the larger retail oak stores. Did the San Francisco Furniture Mart every 6 months for 10 years..Marketed along side with the Tomasville,Bassett,Broyhill,ect .. moved up here about 8 or 9 yrs ago..married 24yra divorced for 6 yrs .. she remarried.. am doing the same thing here in Portland with about 45 craftsmen . Worked for a local furniture retailer and did A few commercials a couple of years ago for them on Pax Tv that Fox produced.. man i looked like a geak on the tube..Doing commercial furniture now, my work is in the Portland art museum. Portland Airport. Did the lockers for the Seattle Sea Hawks, Garden hilton..Just finished working on the new UmpQua Bank downtown ect...
I like to cook. i love to dance to hip hop and am learning the tango.. off and on and salsa if i have the nerve....You know they say Fred Astir was one of the greatest dancers that ever lived, But Ginger Rogers did the same thing he did but backwards and with heels on.. are you my Ginger??I won the Portland International raceway BBQ cook off 4 summers ago. First place in sauce , baby back ribs, and tri tip. I do a mean homemade pizza and prime rib..i Love on a hot day you me in the back yard plate of tacos.. salsa, chips,nachos with a pitcher of margaritas.. and talk about our funniest times.. I play a little jazz piano, and sing a little, I love to go on long drives. .( with a picnic basket of course) to no where. Hike, bike when I have the time. look at art. or look at you make art.. or look at you as my art subject..lol...I also Dj for wedding receptions only, but not as much lately.I was learning to fly but Last octber i bought a power yacht, its a 48' chris craft and never own one before..its been fun learning. i have it moored in Jazzin beach.so i been having fun with that inside of flying, i guess because you can have more family and friends enjoy it than a small plane..
I have learned over the years now, becoming more neutral is the first step toward non-judgment. Eventually, you begin to see the deeper aspects of life and people that are really wonderful, some might even say divine. ( believe me im not trying to get Zen here..) Instead of quickly identifying people's faults and seeing them through that lens you have developed from your life experiences, you begin to lead with love. Not only do the people around you start to look better, but your entire spirit is enhanced by that generous, life-giving quality. What is required for effective change is continuity of sincere effort to release and let go of inefficient thought patterns from the past by using your heart as your compass, you can see more clearly which direction to go to stop self-defeating behavior. If you take just one mental or emotional habit that really bothers or drains you and apply heart intelligence to it, i have noticed a noticeable difference in my life, not only me but others around me. I guess we have to re-examine all you have been told, red, experienced, and make that course correction in our everyday lives..The greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not our circumstances. I remember what a good relationship was like, regular, consistent attention for one another and the relationship, respect for one another and the relationship, regular healthy verbal communication, regular physical contact ( not just in bed mind you ), frequent eye contact -passion, excitement and fun together, promotion of physical and emotional safety at all times, spontaneous surprises on occasion, regular expression of of caring & tenderness, regular expression of feelings, using conflict resolution skills when conflict

...using conflict resolution skills when conflict emerges, creating regular time alone together, without distraction, anger and resentments expressed and resolved, realistic expectations which are regularly communicated, asking for what you want, saying and/or doing what is truthful and honest , being honest and straightforward with my partner, acceptance of my partner's personality and characteristics ( to a point ..),promoting my partner's growth as an individual, taking responsibility for the relationship/life problems, understanding the impact of my partners family,taking the time to listen to what my partner thinks and feels, living in the present and envisioning a positive future together, emphasize solutions and positively. Why do relationships erode away from this??? I feel like one day one night we well be talking to each other forever,,who ever that is.. I can see us laying in bed yapping away staring in each others eyes.. all hours of the night..laughing crying and growing into one another.let me ask you.. as you lay at night with your silent tears..you are not alone.. because i know you are out there some where..some how some way we are going to come together.. that is what i hope for..don't worry I well be there soon..just hold on one more day.. where are you..I wonder sometimes if that is you at the Mall passing by, as I look and scan for you, I see a lot of faces, as you bend over to pick up a pen you dropped did my eyes skim over you where I miss you..or at the store pushing a cart..is it you? are you home all the time rarely to come out..how am i to meet you i wonder?? do you take the bus? im am never on the bus..how am i to get to you? these are thoughts i have..Trying to figure where are you? i know you are out there somewhere like a rare jewel. when its dark at night keep your light on of me in your heart..because no matter what fate keeps me away from you , i will find you..just hold on..what ever happens stay alive.. because i will never stop searching for you for as long as i have breath..I know that you are calling out to me. As you lay there tonight and wonder is it him.. rest assure it is me. I know what its like, as you lay or sit asking yourself did i make the right decision as you are in this deep dark world of loneliness that you have created because of circumstances. That feeling of disconnection, uncertainty. You have built this façade of strength but inside your missing something. Yearning for him, the one you hope to find. But in this busy world you have created for yourself its almost like you feel that its almost imposable to meet someone with any quality characteristics or a desirable demeanor. But yet in this cesspool called the net here we are, having the meeting of the minds. I know I have touched not just in your spirit but in mind and heart. So don't be affraid, drop me a line..it would be wonderful if you did..and would make my day...thank you for reading my profile..and yes i am real and i do my