I'm a light-hearted healthcare professional living about 35 min west of TO Int. Airport. I, like Mae West,only like two kinds of men, "foreign and domestic." Well I'm probably a little more discerning than that, but,I can't tell you what makes one man appealing and the other not. If you can't see the funny side of everything or give and take teasing, you are not my type.

Men: You can be introverted, shy, stutter, the worst joke teller & never have seen the inside of the gym since hi’school, Guys, be real! I'm real! If I look attractive, chat me up. Ask me out. If it works it works if not, oh well we probably still had a nice eveing out.

I have photoes at www.fotothing/ian1958 and old profiles collected at www.bearwww.com/johnjames (I'm not a bear just an admirer)

A good 1st date is when I I don't clam up. I'm very articulate and can talk to strangers, but, there seems to be a demon that tongue-ties me on 1st dates. Once past that I'm ok. So a good 1st date leads to others and hopefully this little dreams comes true of him and me...
It will be nice to have someone to invade my space on a regular basis. I love when I'm waiting for that someone special. Watching from the kitchen window for them to pull into the yard. The engine stops. The headlights go out. The door slams and my soul is thrilled as I see their frame against the night. Later, he falls asleep in my arms with those little orgasmic twitches we all seem to have as we drift off. Then, in total surrender to the fever of the day, he snores me to sleep. I am complete.
I'm not just wanting a guy to sleep with. I want one to wake up with.