I am honest,caring and a very understanding person. I am also a good listener, emotional, affectionate guy who believes in making a relationship work with a little compromise. My family is whats most important to me as well as being a good father. I have 2 great boys ages 9 and 6. I have only been in one 13 year relationship but other than that once I warm up I can be pretty fun. I am seeking a woman who is just real! someone who knows whats most important in life. knows how to just love and to be loved in return. hmmm, must be a cuddler and playful at times too. Please no drama queens or mind gamers! been there done that. I believe in friends first unless theres a strong connection and ladies even if im looking for long term I am open for a goodtime as well. this is my first time being single and hopefully last but I do wanna have some fun too. anyway, I first and foremost love spending time with my boys! love playing frisbee golf, swimming, and pretty much anything outdoors! bonfires, concerts, go to the movies and or have romantic evenings at home. I love going to the beach! as well as attending Notre Dame Football games!

Maybe go to dinner and an activity afterwards! whether it's going to the movies, bowling, walking along the beach or park conversating under the stars, or just dancing the night away,lol! basically something that both can agree upon of course talk as much as possible while getting to know one another.