I'm an attractive curvaceous confident woman who's happy, outgoing and loves life. Life is short and I believe that it's so much better when it is shared with someone you care for. If you've got your act together, are an optimistic fun loving person then send me a note. What have you got to lose? At the very worst, you'll spend a little time flirting with yours truly.

So little space here to sum up 40 + years of life so I'm just going to hit the high points. I'm secure, self confident and debt-free so I'm not looking for a man to "rescue" me. I believe in living my life by the Golden Rule. Treat me right and I will give you back 110%.
If you like exotic looks combined with down-to-earth sensibility, you've found it in me. Compatibility is very important but I don't want someone who's exactly like me- it would be just like dating myself. Much of the pleasure in life comes from opening ones self up to new experiences, different ideas and cultures.
I'm very responsible but I also have a spontaneous, wild and crazy side to me. Take a chance and send me a note. You know you want to

About you:
I can't stress enough how important it is to me that you view life with the "cup is half full" mentality. ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING and unlike many minor things that can be overlooked, agreed upon or just plain outright ignored, the way you react and respond to difficult stressful situations is critical to developing a relationship with me.
Be funny, affectionate, passionate about something in your life- whether its a hobby, sports or your career. You should like animals and care about the environment. I prefer that you be goal-oriented but still know how to relax and have FUN! I prefer men as tall as me although a little shorter than me (I'm 5"10) is okay. I don't have a specific "type" of man in mind- although good hygiene is imperative.I'm looking for someone who can appreciate and comprehend the difference between being sensually sexy and slutty.
Since POF has disabled their IMs, feel free to contact me on AIM or Yahoo under Valyummm61. Please mention you saw me POF or else I probably won't talk to you.
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I'd prefer to go someplace for a cup of coffee, a walk in the park with our pets or a glass of wine. Someplace where we can talk and get to know one another and see if the chemistry is right and if we're compatible. From there, we can plan where we'll go for our first date. I love outdoor concerts, live music, dancing, sports events, movies, romantic dinners, tanning at the beach or lying poolside and picnics in the park.