First of all for those people that say looks don't matter, they lie. How can you be with someone that you don't find attractive? I understand that after getting to know someone you tend to find them more and more attractive but if there is no initial spark there than it probably won't work. If you are much older or are looking at me thinking that I am out of your league, than I probably am. I hate coming across this way but I know what I like and I dont want to waste either of our time. I read profiles where the guy is saying something like.....Ladies, if your showing off your cleavage or have beach pics up then expect to attract losers for one night stands. Well...I am no loser or whore nor do I want one yet I have a bathing suit pic up??? humm. Here's how I see it. I have heard many stories about men going on dates and the chic looked nothing like her picture. At least with a vast array of pics there is no mistaking. Would you rather have a headshot pic only? Cause I can do that. This world needs to stop its steriotypical ways, it's getting old. Anyway on to better things. Most of my free time is spent going out for drinks with friends or just hanging out at home. My friends mean the world to me and i don't know what i would do without them. I have been told that we are kind of crazy girls, lol. We play stupid pranks and just like to laugh. There are always stories to be told after a night out with the girls. However...we are good girls, we go out together and come home together. One thing I am not is a cheat. I believe that if you don't want to be in the relationship then get out...don't cheat first. I love all kinds of sports but football is my passion. Fantasy football is even better! I love love love the Patriots and try never to miss a game. I'm not the girly girl type but you can dress me up and take me out. I do not have a particular "type" but likes someone who takes care of themselves, physically and mentally. I keep myself in good shape and am looking for someone who does the same. No offense but I am being honest... i just dont find "overweight" attractive. And while im being honest...I also see nothing wrong with the more than occasional indulging in 420. I do prefer taller men(i'm almost 5'7 and I like heels) and men with tattoos... guess i do have a type afterall. ;-) And for all you brothers out there....yes i have and will date black men. Seems like that's the first question that is asked anyway. I am all set with drama and overprotective men. I have lived by myself for some time now and I am doing just fine, i don't need a protector. I am not looking for someone to give me the world rather just enjoy it with me. I seem to fall for the ones who end up hurting me and hurt the ones who end up falling for me. Just have not found the right one yet i guess. Maybe i am looking for too much. I'm not looking for mr.perfect, just perfect to me. I listen to all kinds of music but mostly hip hop(i like the good stuff)...no country. Things i like: sushi and saki, all animals, the number 9, the color blue, mint choc chip ice cream, italian food, beach time, sneakers, candles, local bars, dancing with the girls, coors light, patron, sublime, music, scary movies (just not alone), slippers, live bands, going out to eat, buying gifts for people, vacations.......thing i hate: knuckle cracking, animal cruelty, the way my belly hurts after i eat to much, my feet being cold, men that are hot but know it, women that are hot but know it, hangovers, the colors orange and yellow, nuts in ice cream, nuts in brownies, beans, being lied to cause what i'm not worth the truth?, men that make you fall for them with no intensions of catching you..... I guess thats about it for now. I always have a good time when i go out, i can make the best out of any situation.....A strange thing is people who refer to your profile as an ad. An ad....really? idk it just sounds weird. Makes you feel like your for sale.
Wow, if you have made it this far...congrats, it must have been like reading an ADD childs paper (joke!). I probably offended half of you but if your the other half and feel like hitting me up...do so, life is to short to dwell on anything for to long.

First date huh??? Well, everyone needs to eat and with food comes drinks, and that's when the real conversations happens, right? But after eating who knows. I am easy going and like to do almost anything. I am not good at decision making however. Lately i have been thinking maybe its just better to meet for the first time for coffee or lunch, keep it simple, if you click then plan a real first date......

Wow after reading this thing over...do I come off as a complete ****? Either way i'm not, i actually think im a pretty cool chic to hang out with. Well you decide...