hi there Im Ray IM AT FORT McCOY Wisconsin ,IF You are looking for a perfect stud body it is NOT ME ,20 yrs ago ya, im very easy to get along with and very easy going and friendly i been to afghan and Iraq , hoping you mite be friends with me ,i can travel to meet ,i have my bike with if you like to ride when it warms up, Dinners or Movies, Drinks , bike rides ,NO PRESSURE ??? i like to have fun ,life is to short for playing games with someone that doesnt play well , I've always believed that if you set your expectations too high it can seem impossible to reach or exceed them. IF without a goal, without a plan, without an ending...there's no purpose for the journey. Yet if the expectation is unreasonable it's unlikely you'll be successful. Yes...I have unreasonable expectations...or so I thought...perhaps not so unreasonable after all. Perfection is so subjective anyway and really....what does that mean...is it possible? Im Not Perfect ,JUST BE YOURSELF ,I am a face to face type of guy. I prefer to have brief conversation over the internet via e-mail, or instant messanger, then move on to talking on the phone, and then proceed to meeting in person. If you think about it...we really do not know if there will be an attraction there until we meet in person...correct. As stated previously I prefer to very upfront, blunt and honest. After all our time is precious to us and there for why waste it, Ray

well dinner and movie or a drink, a bike ride if nice out, and see where it goes from there, So tell me this.... Question for You ????? Do you judge ? Do you have an agenda or checklist of the Qualities of the person your looking for or meeting? Chances of someone having all the qualities your looking for are slim to none , so I keep a positive attitude , Remember to ask yourself, what realy matters in the end ? ,No expectations, no disappointments....right? Ray