I play steel guitar, not professionally, but mostly for fun. Not in a band (yet) but if I did join one it would be for fun, too. Funny thing is -- I don't really like going to bars. Go figure.

I'm looking for a nice girl -- someone to hang out with, as I am in no rush to get married again (been there, done that) and have fun. I'm more attracted to slender people, so just want to say that up front. I'm not looking for someone that feels the need to control things - I can do find with that on my own. Just looking for someone that can be intimate (non-physically). The rest will take care of itself.

FRAUDS AND SCAMMERS BEWARE -- YOU MAY FIND THE FOLLOWING PATENTLY OFFENSIVE !!!!
1) If you are from the African continent -- sorry -- I will not respond. And I can read letters and tell if you are from there, even if you say you have a US address. You can try, but I don't play that game.
2) If you are from Russia (or former Soviet Union) - be prepared to send me a picture, address, and a phone number. If you don't have a phone number, sorry, I don't play that game, either. I know how extremely difficult it is for a Russian to get a visa to come here too. You better be prepared to chat with a messenger - I use Yahoo and MSN. If you don't chat, too bad. If you don't have a phone, too bad.
3) If we get along really well with e-mails and chats, and after 3-4 exchanges decide you are in love with me, keep the following in mind - WE HAVE NEVER MET. It doesn't happen that way. Come on. I didn't fall off the tater truck yesterday.
4) If you send me an e-mail and ask me to go see your naked pictures -- I will turn you in for profile abuse and have them remove you. That means you are a porn star somehwere, amateur or professional. If I was looking for porn, don't you think I would be on a different site?

I like to meet somewhere for coffee so we can sit down and chat. That way you are in an atmosphere where you can really get to know each other better. From the coffee shop meeting you can choose to do something else, but the coffee shop is a low-stress, very safe public place. Of course -- other places, too, if one of us doesn't drink coffee :))