You know it's funny, people keep messaging me saying I seem sweet...but thats a common mistake the new comers make. The reality is I can be a vindictive ****. I'm just a ****ed up girl looking for her own piece of mind.

I can also be sweet...it just takes longer to see it.

Life changes so quickly, you can either fight it or enjoy the ride.

New Game: Guess what colour my hair is now.........

I'm a pretty easy going single mother of two busy boys (8 & 5).

As it says in the drop menu part of the profile...I am NOT looking for a relationship, hook-up, sex or any of that other fun stuff...
I'm really just here for the forums...sorry

I love rock, musicals and country music, karaoke, shopping, hockey, spontaneity, laughing & making people laugh.
I've been told I'm the kinda gal that'll keep you on your toes.

I do little things that will make you smile like jumping up just to touch a pretty leaf or absently running my hand through tall grass. I sing and dance as I cook and I don't care who's there to watch. I also sing and dance in public...like when I'm shopping and I still don't care who's there to watch.
I named my iPod Elphie...cause it's green...heh
I keep hair dye in the house at all times so I can dye my hair when I'm bored...so it's kinda ever changing.
I like shiny things...I like to look at shiny things, they're pretty
I can NOT spell
I love baking and depending on the situation cooking but I am the worst housekeeper. I loathe cleaning...ugh!
I have an enormous and diverse wardrobe so you NEVER know who you're getting. One night it might be jeans, a tee shirt and a cowboy hat...the next it could be a 'hippy' skirt and peasant top.

Here's the stuff I like

- My kids
- My friends
- Kissing soft, fat, warm baby cheeks just after they wake up
- Flirting
- My tongue ring
- My navel ring
- My tattoo
- Texting
- Shopping (I'm practically a professional)
- Outdoor shopping
- Garage Sales
- Hosting parties
- Snuggling babies to sleep
- Mochas
- Boys who make me mochas
- Karaoke
- Singing
- Music
- Geeks & Nerds
- Hanging out with friends at the bar
- Camping
- My heatie pad
- Being appreciated
- Sandalwood
- Vanilla
- Hockey (GO SENS GO)
- Being a Scorpio

Here's the stuff I don't like

- People with no manners or thoughtfulness
- Brain dead ppl who think that being in their presence makes me a better person
- Lack of personal hygiene
- Liars
- Pouting
- Temper Tantrums
- Mooches (social or personal)
- Cramps
- Flakes
- Clones
- Jealousy
- Cleaning
- Mess (bit of a conundrum)
- Being too serious all the time
- Improper use of the word ignorant
- Closed mindedness
- Sitting next to people who are convinced they are the axis of the universe
- Being Cold
- e-persona syndrome
- Spitting & people who do it
- Having to wash dishes to use dishes
- When somebody calls you and getting a hold of them to return the call is a thin slice of hell

***Be who you are and say what you feel...because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. -Dr. Seuss

First date...something where we can talk and laugh. NO MOVIES!!! I don't want to spend my first date ignoring the other person in the dark and subsequently being ignored in the dark.

My best first date ever was a giant garage sale
Second best was a tie between a dark club/battle of the bands we ditched to walk and talk and a romantic dinner in a nice restaurant

I have no consistency in what I like as a date so long as it's kinda unique and we can get to know one another