I have to say that I'm not "looking" for anything but new friends right now, I know that the perfect girl for me and my life is out there somewhere, and my finding her eventually will be no so much in "looking" as in being receptive. That being said I'm receptive! lol

Who am I? hmmm, I could say i'm a free spirit, though that might understate the case. I have my own sense of style, my own way of doing things. I'm tall, furry, eccentric, funny, kind, i love children and small animals. Large animals too for that matter. I have the soul of a philosopher, with the heart of a poet. I know how to do a lot of things, i'm a bit of a jack of all trades (though my name is steve not jack...)

I have a Beautiful Daughter, a 4x4 Pickup Truck, a crippled old Hound Dog and a Biggass bus. I like being outdoors, in the sun, the sand, the water. I like to help people, it makes me feel good. I'm a musician and a music collector. I have dreams of a Strawbale house in the hills, goats, a dog, a 4x4, a garden and a full rootceller. I have dreams of taking off to hunt mushrooms for the summer (the money kind not the majic kind)- and beaches in belize in the winter (the spanish kind not the resort kind).

I'm not holding my breath on finding my soulmate on this site, but just in case that she may be YOU, (or that you may know her and let her know where she can find me...), here is sort of what I am actively manifesting. I'm looking for someone who is cute and funny, who likes meeting new people, and is equally happy with a walk as a run. Someone who likes my dog. A girl who is NOT all about being cool, wearing the latest whatever and carrying a tiny little dog. A girl who knows herself, who knows what permaculture is, who seeks and values freedom. Someone who i can play music for, make music with, and who will also serenade me at times. Oh and if she can cook that's a bonus. (I am an excelent cook, but even I get tired of my own creations.) I like women who are capable, and who are not afraid to get dirty and who are not afraid to learn new skills and experiance something new. I am not all about looks, though i have my preferences - please don't be offended. I find healthy = attractive. (note i said healthy, not anorexic thin) I'm looking for a friend, a best friend even, a partner in life, or parts of it anyways. Somebody who will back me up in public even if you disagree in private. (I promise to return the favor) Somebody who will cuddle up at night and who fits under my arm. Somebody who understands that though I am charming and wonderful I am also a MAN, and I think like one. And having said that understands that I am still a boy at heart. I recently read something on relationships that i'm pondering, Relationships are not a matter of sharing 50/50, it's 100/100. I like this ideal and i wish i had learned this earlier.

whew.

I live and work on the road, but am based here in kamloops, I am trying to create a healthy lifestyle for myself and my daughter that will allow us to travel and experiance the people and sights of this great country while finding interesting and varied work experiances. I would like to do some different types of building work, while filming for my own version of a sort of webbased TV show.

I do my best to live my life intentionally and on purpose. That means i do things most people would never think of doing, and that there are things others do without even thinking about that I will not do.(or at least not without thought.) I have strong convictions and opinions and enjoy debating and learning new ideas and viewpoints. My friends might call me funny, caring, honest and capable. I always help little old ladies across streets and hold the door. I have a good sense of humor and can laugh at myself, I play dijeridoo, bass, and slide guitar, I drum syncopated, and like to spin fire once and a while. I wear kilts, because they are comfortable, not just because i look dead sexy in them (though I do) I don't watch sports or wear ball caps and even when i did they didn't have team logo's on them. Does that tell you something?

I invite you to ask me some questions, if i don't answer honestly it will at least be funny, i promise!
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So to sum up, ladies if you are looking for a suave, genteel, cleanshaven, metrosexual "normal" type of guy, sorry ladies that just ain't me, good luck looking somewhere else, but hey, if you are looking for a unique, interesting, funny, gentle, loving, sensual honest man..... well drop me a line - I just might bite.

happy fishing, may we all get caught at least once.

I like beer, live music, roadtrips, river rides, new resturants, and old faves. I like nice beers and good BC smoke, making music and being outside. In the summer I love beachin, just chillin with the waves lappin my feet with a cold beer in hand. and in the fall and winter I love curling up on a couch with a warm drink or bottle of wine and a warm body and watching a movie or two. Let's do something random, urban spelunking? whale watching? Shopleaving? Rock skipping? Skinny Dipping? spontanious camping trips? I'm up for anything, lol.