i am NOT looking for a "perfect" man (i found out they dont exist... lol), but rather a man that is perfect for me... i AM looking for a nice guy ... i dont buy into the "nice guys finish last" mentality... thats just an excuse to not be nice...lol... i appreciate moral integrity, sensitivity, compassion, kindness, and men who treat women with respect however, finding these traits in today's society has become a huge task... like the proverbial "needle in a haystack"!! i know it is just as hard to find a good woman but i know i am one so i know they exist which leads me to the conclusion that good men must also exist... PLEASE tell me im right on that one ;)

im usually outgoing and laughing but have a shy and serious side too... i like quick witted people and can be witty at times too :-)... im caring, trustworthy, honest, genuine and reliable...not into head games.... very young at heart but responsible ... i have been told many times that i have a big heart and sometimes i even wear it on my sleeve!

new friends are always welcome as well...you just never know where your connections might lead you!!

i really have no preference for anything specific to do on a first date...im more concerned about who im with rather than where we are!!!