Hi there. I'm a guy in his thirties who works in IT at a financial company. With my spare time, I write and perform music (belong to two choirs), plus I do some webmastering for the website of my fraternity's local alumni association. My aspirations are to move up the ladder in IT to be a web developer, and possibly create an online music store down the road.

I guess what I bring to the table is being someone who is very easygoing; someone who, no matter what another person is like, tries his best to look at the positive in that person. I also am a guy who becomes a total romantic when he is with a woman he really likes. It's not all about the physical aspects of love for me (although it's always a plus when it gets to that), but rather it's about having that emotional connection. You know, the one that happens where you're just waiting for the next time you speak to that special someone, be it on the phone, the IM, or even meeting somewhere face-to-face. And with that connection, you both seem to be, to each other, the only ones that matter in the world.

I am looking to meet a woman who will eventually be that for me, and would want me to be that for her. I want the woman I'd like to meet to have the following (besides beauty, of course); intelligence, a great sense of humor, an easygoing personality, a huge heart, and (should a relationship develop) would be willing to be as supportive of me in what I do as I will definitely be in supporting her in whatever she does.

Important: No offense, because I'm sure you'll find someone who love this about you, but I'm not interested in anyone who already has children. Not being judgemental; just personally want to start a family from scratch.

An ideal first date would be at a restaurant or even a coffee bar a la Starbucks; somewhere that's quiet and subdued enough for us both to talk and get to know each other more.