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I want to find a dance partner and a good friend. Perhaps this can lead to another, more substantial type of relationship in the future. I'm open to that.
I'm a red-blooded heterosexual male, but I'm not looking for a quick sexual hook-up.
I've been out of a relationship for a while, and I'm determined to wait until I meet a very special, wonderful woman before I get physically intimate again.
I'm not in a hunting mode.I'm perfectly happy with my small circle of friends, my growing community of dancers, and the two wonderful little heartbeats who call me 'Daddy'. If you're out there, I'm sure I'll meet you.
I'll have to really like you before I can really love you.
I hope for a relationship where we can read to each other ('Selected Shorts' is my favorite NPR program), laugh together, and continue slow dancing after the music has stopped.
I'm Jewish, and that will never change. You you can have any form of spirituality, but please be respectful of my traditions .
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I’ve met quite a few women on this site and most of them have been wonderful ladies. I’ve made a number of good friends as well, and I greatly value each and every one of those women. Now I’m ready to find a special someone
I realize that my emphasis on dancing may have been a bit overblown. I do love to dance, but it isn’t the center of my universe anymore. I’d like for you to be open to going out dancing sometime, or even taking lessons with me, but it isn’t a deal-breaker for me.
My children are still in grade school. So if you are an empty nester or if you are making plans to retire, please understand that my children are still young and very active. I also plan to continue working for the next several years; I love my work and I still have much to do before I’m satisfied enough to retire.
If you are racist, homophobic, or enjoy right-wing talk radio, we probably won't be a match
If we meet and there is no romantic spark, but we still choose to be friends, I will not consider my time with you to have been wasted at all. Rather, I will enjoy being your friend and will look forward to having you as my friend.
So ladies, there it is. Let’s get together and have a good time!

Let's do something light and easy for a first date. Let's see if we speak the same non-verbal language; if we have the same values, sense of humer, etc. I want a non-noisy environment for conversation.