-Hi I am tired of this dating scene; are you? I am exploring and have met such new and exciting people on this site. Yet, would hope to meet a person who fits. By "fits" I mean a person who compliments me, as I do them. Ideally, finding someone and liking them for whom they are and not trying to change them or vice versus, would be phenomenal. Someone who is interested in going places for fun. Not always fearing a lifelong commitment. Someone who is natural and does not feel that they have to put on a mask for fear of scaring the other away. My number one pet peeve is degrading sexual language. Feel it just shows how one really looks at the female and how she is perceived by a man. A time and place for all. I am a good lady, fun-loving, kind, spiritual and considerate of others. I believe that to have a friend is to be a friend. I seek someone who is nurturing to all and allows others to see his vulnerability in this world of unknowns. I go to movies, bowling, bonfires and BBQ spending time meeting new friends and nurturing old ones. I do attend church---now just wait a minute let me explain---- don't rush off-----this is something I do for me and do not feel that I need to impress my beliefs on others.

I think it would be enjoyable to find a person who feels they can be themselves, just as long as they take a bath, brush their teeth, have self-respect and hold gratitude for what they have in life. Except the lessons from the good, wise and unwise choices they have made in life, as I have.

FIRST DATE?? MANY CHOICES-- A simple lunch. A movie and dinner. Bowling a few games. Meeting in a public place such as the zoo, arboretum, city park, library, shopping mall or even a fair. The other end of the spectrum----Drinking coffee or soda & chatting for hours and hours, talking about life in general. All these would be a blast for a first date! I do not think that people see fireworks or stars on a first date. Yet, I do believe in chemistry, sometimes it just takes time and effort to get to know someone for who they are. I am loyal, truthful and sincere. +++ Romance and love the little gestures that come with this.+++ Little things mean a lot and can make the difference in how we see each other and the world today.