| haywiresue The Sunfish:
Life Is Good |
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| City |
Winnipeg Manitoba |
| Area |
Canada |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Taurus |
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Height | 5' 2" (157 cm)
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| Age |
53 |
| Gender |
Woman |
| Body Type |
A Few Extra Pounds |
| Religion |
Christian - other |
| Hair Color |
Blond |
| Private Images |
Yes | | Chemistry |
N/A | Relationship Needs: N/A |
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| I am Seeking a |
Man
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Who is Looking
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Dating |
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| Smoker? |
No |
| Do you drink? |
Socially |
| Marital Status |
Divorced |
| Profession |
Professional |
| Smarts |
Some university |
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| Do you want children? |
Undecided/Open |
| Do you do drugs? |
No |
| Do you have children? |
All my kids are over 18 |
| Do you have a car? |
N/A |
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| | About Me |
| | Hi and thanks for stopping by to check me out. I'm a lady who is not afraid to speak out, which is quite different than someone who is outspoken - do you know the difference, can you appreciate that, and are you the same? I don't like sarcastic people, I believe its a label to permit bad behavior.
Are you strong enough to be my man? I bet that made you stop and think. I'm an independent lady who is looking for her emotional equal, who is mutually interested in finding someone to share that soft safe place you can experience with the right person.
I read a passage about love and some traits that I find endearing in a man, as I read them, I found myself smiling.....do you demonstrate some of these qualities? The perfect man for me is one who knows how to order the right wine when we are out for dinner. This man says what he means, and means what he says. I hope that you are able to fix things I cannot, or point me in the right direction to get it fixed. I hope you might be able to reach things I cannot - sometimes it sucks being 5' tall. Are you the type of man who would honestly tell me, what I might do for you, when I want to show you my appreciation because you are in my life, or after you have done something that has helped me? I hope so, because it really means a lot to me, to appreciate and be appreciated by the man in my life. Can you protect me when I need it, and be proud of me when I stand on my own - because you can be sure that I will have your back. Will you hold me when I am having a weak moment and need the strength of your arms around me? Know that you can count on me to be there to hold you when you need me. Will you help me make the bed in the morning, because you were part of the reason its a mess in the morning? Will you teach me things I dont know, because you want to broaden my knowledge, not because you fear I want to replace or eliminate you? Realize that I will do the same, and teach you things to broaden your knowledge. I believe that learning together or doing a chore can be fun. Will you ask me for directions, because I can read a road map and together, we will navigate toward our destination together. Will you let me do things for you and be your support, because I love you, not because you are any less of a man, or because I am any more of a woman. Individually I know we are great, but together we will be unbelievable. Our individual strengths and weaknesses should compensate each others - imagine how strong of a team we can be. If you fillet the fish, I will cook it and together we can enjoy a wonderful shared meal...after desert we can clean up the dishes together. Remember that all the jobs you are able to do that I cannot, there are equally as many things I am able to do that you cannot - so why not share our talents with each other. I live a balanced life, do you? I am looking for a man I want to spend time with, and who wants to spend time with me. When we are apart, we should both have fond thoughts and miss one another - are you looking for the same? I would like to know that we spend time together because we want to, not because we have to, or its expected of us. If you would like to capture my heart, you must be prepared to let your heart be captured. If you believe in trust, honesty, integrity and compassion, then you definitely have my attention. I'm looking for mind candy, who can hold his own during intelligent spirited coversation over a coffee or glass of wine.
If you are still reading, I hope you are smiling because I love to laugh. If you are contemplating contacting me, please be unattached and living on your own - kids and pets are ok BTW, just not a wife, or partner. I'm really tired of the married or unavailable men online who are looking for a booty call. Hey fellas, I'm not it, so dont even bother wasting your time with me. Just in case you haven't figured it out yet, I dont share my toys! I had the personal strength, self-respect, consideration for my ex, and respect for the wedding vows I made, to leave instead of cheating. I dont really care how bad, sad or pathetic your story is - cheating is cheating and I'm just not interested. My appologies to the single men who read this and think I sound jaded. I'm not jaded, just tired of the men who want a respectable home life and something on the side, while they lack the balls to change their situation. To these men, I say put on your big boy underwear and either fix your relationship problems, buy a blow up friend/hooker, or leave your wife or s/o who is not intellegent, not interested in intimacy, or has let herself go. Make the needed change in your life and go out and find a decent woman who can give you what you desire, and who will respect you for being a man of integrity. Dont try the mindset of "lets be friends" thinking its gonna turn into "friends with benefits". I am not interested in scraps of your time, sloppy seconds, or being on call to you when you can sneak away. I deserve much more than that, as I have a lot to offer the right man. So, as the song goes, I'm not here for your entertainment, so please go elsewhere. If I want a relationship with something on a leash, I'll buy a dog.
To the young men under 40, realize that I am not a cougar and not intersted how young, hard, rippled and hot your body is, get your experience elsewhere. I am looking for a gentleman within my posted age range who like me, has experienced life. I'm not interested in a partner who has a ton of baggage, but that comment can be misunderstood because we are defined by our past experiences. The man that I am interested in, has knowledge from a balance of life experiences. We all have life experiences that we should have learned from, and I am looking for someone, who has learned from past experiences and is looking forward to see what great adventures are in front of us, not somone who is stuck in a rut, or has no idea where to go from here. 
Who is this leading lady known as Haywiresue? Well I would like to think (and have been told) intellegent, kind, gentle, compassionate, a lover of life, with a great sense of humor. There are many facets to my character and I enjoy them all. I'm comfortable in any type of clothing; business, formal, causual and I am always a lady (well ok, sometimes a lady knows when to kick off the stilettoes and get her hands dirty).
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| | First Date |
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Let's start off with some private messages and/or online chat to find out if we have enough chemistry, things in common, and any mutual interests. Then, if the mutual desire is there, lets meet for some great conversation, as we continue to find out what we have in common, over coffee or lunch. Then, who knows, we just might be on our way, to have that special first date. Am I in a rush, no not at all. Why you ask? That's easy - because if you are "the one" I want to enjoy each moment of our journey.
To me a first date would be to do a fun activity and then if the mutual interest was there to go for coffee, a snack or desert and continue getting to know one another. Its all about having some fun and learning more about each other, hopefully while inspiring great conversation: how about any of the following (weather permitting of course), a visit to the zoo, museum, art gallery, Lower Fort Garry, ice cream at Lockport and a nice walk along the river, game of mini golf, sitting on a dock with our feet dangling in the water at the lake seeing who can blow the biggest bubble while chewing bubblegum (ok maybe that should be a second date), playing pool, shooting some hoops, IMAX, planetarium, a walk through Leo Moll Garden and talking about each of our favorite travel destinations, or something fun that you can think of. How about building a snowman, going for a toboggan ride, snow ball fight, a walk in the country looking for animal tracks on a bright sunny day with a thermos of coffee waiting for us in the car when we return. I'm pretty easy going and for me - its more about the company than the activity.
I am looking for someone who brings out the best in me while I bring out the best in them. Who knows, this may turn into exciting new adventures to share, which may lead to romantic intimacy. If any of this interests you, contact me as I do have good manners and will respond to your message.
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