First let me say that I always respond when a lady responds to my profile. I do NOT use the excuse that I get too many messages (I should narrow my criteria then) or that I am too busy. I respect that a lady who takes time to write is also a busy person and deserves the courtesy of a response, even if it is brief. I am not so arrogant that I think MY time is more important than yours.

I am a financially stable, secure guy looking to meet a lady for what will hopefully end up in some sort of a long term relationship.


I am a romantic who loves to spoil that someone special with attention and affection. I love a great smile, teeth and eyes. Looking for someone who likes to go out for coffee, dinner etc. but can also enjoy quiet evenings at home snuggled up together, watching a movie. I am strong yet capable of emotion; a leader but not pushy; intelligent but not arrogant. I am picky but not unrealistic and feel I deserve that one special lady. She is hard to find but I will not give up looking, and when I find her, I will treat her like the special lady she is. I am NOT a player but I refuse to settle. I need to be with the right lady or none at all so I will meet as many ladies as it takes to find her. I do not want to chat back and forth forever. The idea here is to MEET someone, not find a pen pal.

I live in Edmonton but I am from Vancouver and plan to move back someday, or the Island so please, you ladies in BC right now, do not let distance be a barrier because I can go out there often until I make the move. Bonus points, in fact, if you are a BC Lion fan as I intend to work for them someday. I have not traveled much to date (never been outside of North America actually) but plan to later, hopefully not alone.

My friends would describe me as intelligent, passionate, caring, loyal, respectful and a person with character and integrity. Some would say I'm shy and some would describe me as outgoing. I am both. I love going out with a small group of friends. I love to laugh and make others laugh. Also, I love to learn so periodically take courses of various types.

I am not athletically built and am hoping you place more importance on my character and integrity than my athleticism (or lack thereof lol), age etc. Having said that, I am trying to be the best I can for the lady I want to attract so I am working hard to get in better shape. I can not call myself a non-drinker to callig myself a social drinker is an exageration. I like Coffee and Baileys etc. Never a beer in my life and NEVER done any drugs (ecxcept prescrition of course lol).

You are pretty, and have a smile that would make everything inside of me melt. Size (within reason please) is not a big issue and in fact, I have a preference for cuddly and curvy. You should have a strong personality but yet be warm, kind and compassionate. I love intimacy. You are looking to meet someone for what will hopefully end up in a long term relationship. I feel guilty saying this because I make so many typos but PLEASE know the difference between "There, Their and They're" and "No and Know" etc.

If any of this intrigues you, please contact me so we can try and take it to the next level. I do not need a relationship but would love to meet that one special lady to share life with. One with whom we can lean on each other, laugh with each other, deal with the good and the bad together and just be there for each other. I feel I have so much love to give but no one to give it to. I feel like an artist with no canvas.

One of my favourite quotes:
A soul mate is the one with whom you could sit with, without saying a word, and walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you have ever had.

Preferably coffee and dessert someplace quiet where we can sit and talk. Maybe later go for pizza. Other than that, whatever we both feel comfortable with. Alternatively, for those ladies who feel coffee is too much like an interview, I've always wanted to try some of the following:

THIRTY WAYS TO HAVE FUN AT WAL-MART AND BEAT THE JANUARY BLAHS!
(only posting a few just for a chuckle. Have to meet for coffee if you want to get the rest )
(Unfortunately, it appears necessary to clarify, this is a joke, one lady thought it was real date idea.)

01. Take shopping carts for the express purpose of filling them and stranding them at strategic locations.
02. Get boxes of condoms and put them in people’s carts when they aren’t looking.
03. Set all the alarm clocks to go off at ten-minute intervals throughout the day.
04. Run up to an employee (preferably male) while squeezing your legs together and practically yell at him, "I need some tampons".
05. Try on bras over top of your clothes.
06. Make a trail of orange juice on the ground, leading to the washrooms.
07. While walking around the store, sing in your loudest voice possible, "I smell sex and candy".
08. Walk up to an employee and tell him in an official tone, “I think we’ve got a code 3 in housewares,” and see what happens.
09. Tune all the radios to a Polka station, turn them all off and then turn the volumes up to '10'