I AM UPDATING MY PROFILE, SO THERE WILL BE NO CONFUSION WITH WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A GENTLEMAN: I AM A 5FT 7" BLONDE ATTRACTIVE AND SLENDER BUILT. I HAVE A 12 YEAR OLD SON, YES I AM 49 YRS OLD, AND I HAD MY SON LATE IN LIFE AND HAVE NO REGRETS ABOUT IT. HE IS VERY CLOSE TO ME. IF YOU CAN'T DEAL WITH A UNDER AGED CHILD I UNDERSTAND BUT THEN I AM NOT FOR YOU, FOR MY SON ENJOYS SPENDING TIME WITH ME AND WHOMEVER I AM WITH. THAT'S NOT TO SAY WE WON'T HAVE TIME ALONE. I ENJOY SHOPPING BUT WHAT WOMEN DO YOU KNOW THAT DOESN'T. I LOVE THE SUMMER MONTHS AND I HATE THE WINTER MONTHS. I OWN MY OWN HOME THAT I WORKED HARD TO KEEP. I AM A VERY RESPONABLE AND INDEPENDANT PERSON AND SOMETIMES I NEED MY SPACE, SO IF YOU ARE A PERSON THAT NEEDS 24/7 CONTACT WITH ME, PLEASE MOVE ON WE ARE NOT COMPATIABLE .

I WOULD LIKE TO MEET THE PERSON AT A LOCAL PLACE FOR COFFEE OR DRINKS, MAYBE DINNER. HE WILL MAYBE KISS ME ON THE CHEEK . WE WILL GO SOMEWHERE QUIET SO WE CAN TALK AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER OVER A GLASS OF WINE AND DINNER I WILL KNOW RIGHT THERE AND THEN IF YOU ARE FOR ME, AND ALSO KNOW IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN ME TOO. AFTER DINNER IF WE ARE ENJOYING EACH OTHERS COMPANY MAYBE A WALK ON THE BOARDWALK HOLDING HANDS AND TALKING TALKING , ABOUT OUR LIVES OUR FAMILY WHATEVER WE FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH. THEN WALK ME TO MY CAR, AND BE HONEST ABOUT THINGS, IF AND WHEN WE WOULD SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN AND I WILL DO THE SAME I THINK THAT IS ONLY FAIR TO THE BOTH OF US. MAYBE WE WOULD KISS GOODNITE UNTIL NEXT TIME, AND THERE WILL BE A NEXT TIME IF THE FIRST NIGHT LAST THIS LONG.