I am a fun, easy going guy. I like to enjoy life to the fullest. I am not into games. I like to be honest and forthright. I do not have a lot of free time to do the things that I want to do, but the time I do have to myself, I would like to spend with someone who makes me feel good. I am in search of someone that stimulates me, both mentally and physically. Someone I can talk to about all kinds of topics, but mostly who I can feel comfortable saying all the crazy stuff that my brain conjures up. I look at this as a second chance to find the perfect mate for me, and I do not intend to compromise on that. I am confident enough in myself to be alone, but like most people, it would be nice to have someone to share life with. I have a great sense of humor, and prefer to look at things with an eye towards the positive, rather than the negative. I can be pretty cynical, and sarcastic at times though. My parents always told me that there was a reason for everything in life; fate if you will. Given that, it is best not to dwell on bad things, but to look for the good in life. I look at people like that to. I give people the benefit of the doubt, until the contrary arises.

I like to meet in a public place first, so we can get to know each other without any kind of expectations. I like to have a few beers, play some pool, darts, or have a nice dinner. Any place where we can get to know each other without having to yell or scream to be heard. If that works out well, then we can plan a second date from there. I am not out for a one night stand, been there done that, and it is not my idea of dating. I would like to meet someone that I could fall in love with. If that does not work out, then at least we could become friends. One can never have enough friends. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.