update Oct 2008: Well i thought that i would add somethings here and say whats new in my life lately. I am still in college, i am on the million year plan it feels like. My majors are philosophy and government. I am really interested in discussing those issues. I like people who are intelligent and openminded and opinionated. I am trying to quit smoking right now, but it isnt easy. I have five children, and my father passed away last summer. But i am still trying so thats a start right? I like to read, draw, paint and do many things. I love movies and music and still love to play video games. I am a nerd, but dont look like one. If you have any questions, please dont hesitate to ask, who knows you may at least gain a friend.
My other interests range from sitting around a table drinking coffee and discussing the meaning of life to playing rpg's. I like camping and try to go at least once a year with my kids. I cant say i am any good at fishing, nor have I ever gone hunting. I love water and would love to go jet sking. The only problem is you need a jet ski to do that..lol.
I have a varied humor. I like sarcastic and even corny jokes. I tend to take most things not too seriously as life is too short to take too serious. I am the kind of guy who remains friends with my ex's and still talk with them often. I am not jealous and almost always extreamly honest. ( Some would say too honest.)
I like arts, crafts, music, reading, wine, computers, philosophy, politics, games of all sorts, children, education, conversations, cooking, dont like to clean though, only do that cause i have to. ( why cant everyone have their own maid? I only think its fair.) I am a lousy speller and the type of person most people want as a friend. ( yes that means many people have told me "I love you as a friend" way too often.)
So take a chance and either respond or write, you might be suprised.

who knows, i am up for many things.