I am a selective, orally bi spiritually female occupying a male form. I'm in my early 40's, but don't show it, I have blue eyes and blonde hair that currently reaches just past my shoulders, and I weigh 120lbs (54.5kg). I shave my body completely and and free of piercings or tattoos although I do find them to be attractive on others to a certain limit. I am healthy, clean and discrete and am NOT into any HEAVY, ADDICTIVE drug use (I.E. P.C.P., cocaine or it's derivatives,heroin ar anything that comes in crystalline form or that is injected) light herbs used in moderation is another matter though. I am not very well endowed and not always fully functional which is why I am more focused on oral pleasures, especially in giving. I have a slow hand and a gentle touch and find that there can be just as much intimacy in holding hands and hugging and giving passionate kisses as there is in greater sexual activity. Due to my job I spend my weekday hours in male clothing (at least externally) and work boots and keep my hair tied in the back in a pony tail and with a bit of stubble on my face. When I get home though I like to get dresed in more feminine attire after a good shower and shave and try to do the whole route with hair, makeup, nail polish and accessories.

Ideally I would love to find an educated. mature, open minded and accepting woman close to my size so that we can dress together and have a good time. Although I'm not bad at making myself look pretty and somewhat convincing I would love to have her be very adept at applying makeup and give me a makeover so that I can look my prettiest and most feminine. Unfortunately I have not yet been successful in finding a woman like that especially up here in Northern Ontario. I am not very aggressive but neither am I a wimp, but I do believe in treating others and being treated in a fair and equitable manner. To me the word 'NO' means just that, no matter what someone's body language might be telling me. (which I am poor at best at interpreting anyway). I would also consider a bi couple so long as the male is at the very least clean shaven, not bald, and free of body hair. Other 'girls' like me would also be nice so long as they put the proper effort to make themselves look pretty just as much as I do

I am an actor with my local community theatre group and have played a variety of characters throughout the years. I do not have a car or even a driver's license for that matter but do get around by human power and 2 wheels. I have had a variety of interests in the past such as going to the beach or canoeing in the hotter weather and snowshoeing or cross country skiing in the winter or going hunting in the fall but have not done so in a number of years.

Ideally we would start out with a cup of coffee in a nice diner or Timmys so that we could have a long talk and tell each other about ourselves outside of what has already been posted to see if we're compatible. We could hang around in a shopping mall and check out all the stores that interest either one of us and examine the merchandise. We could go for a nice long walk and either check out a movie or catch a stage play if it is in season. We could both be casually dressed or be a little bit more formal depending on what we both agree in doing. We could also go to a nice bar/restaurant which would have a stage for Karaoke where I would demonstrate my vocal talents for you. Eventually we could end the night over one last cup of coffee and say our farewells with the hopes of seeing each other again.