I'm just looking for a female friend who wants to come and go as she pleases, like I do. Neither shall crowd the other. No meaningless phone calls 10 times a day. No "every Friday and Saturday nights" like a religion. I just don't want to get too obligated and only want a woman to be my friend without crowding me right after the first intimate encounter. Clingy, needy people make me run! Why are grown-ups so hung-up and make sharing affection like signing a contract? Yes, I know lots of you will think I'm an awful man for suggesting such things... but it's true!