" FRIENDS First Formost and ALWAYS". "

(a poem , song , or thought for the moment )

what is life about for you ?
These thoughts hang on my walls ,and swim through my mind; so I will share Them with you , if anything strikes a note for you then feel free to share it around !
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" Our Achievments are Shaped by the Terrain of Our Lives and the Strength
of the Foundations we set . In building the Life We have Imagined , We must be True to our Beliefs , Dare to be Ethical , and Strive to be Honorable.
FOR INTEGRITY IS THE HIGHEST GROUND TO WHICH WE CAN ASPIRE ! "
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Some people see things as they are and say "why" .
I dream things that are not yet and say "why not "
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LIFE
Life Is not:
about keeping score,How many friends you have ,Or how Accepted you are .
It is Not about Your plans for the weekend , or if your alone .
It isn't about who you are dating, used to date ,or how many you have dated ,
Or if you have ever been with anyone at all , who or if you have ever been Kissed .
It is not about who your family is , or how much money they have .
Life is not about what car you drive, clothes you wear,shoes you have , what school you attended , What grades you get or Whether you ever went to school .
It is not about how beautiful Or ugly you are , The color of your hair or skin .
Life s not about How smart you are , or how smart standardized tests say you are, or how smart others think you are . Its not about your I.Q., E.Q or SQ ...
Its not about what "sport " you play or how good you are at it .
It is not about the mistakes we make !

And life is most certainly not about;
representing Your Whole being in writing to see who will "Accept the written You" !
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"Life is about who you love , and who you hurt "
It's about Who you make happy or unhappy purposefully
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about Frienship used as a sanctuary or a weapon .
It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, or heartening.
It is about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip , or quelling them .
Its about what judgments you pass and why, and who your judgments are spread to .
It is about who you "Ignore with full control and intent".
It is about Jealousy ,fear ,ignorance and revenge .
It's about Whether we carry inner hate ; or Love ,letting it grow, and spreading it .
Life is about the leasons we learn .

Most of all Life is about using your life to Touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could never have occured alone .

Only you choose the way you will touch others lives, and those Choises are what Life Is realy all about .
( Azebyzani Writer "Fidan" last name unknown )
"LIFE IS ABOUT WHAT YOU GIVE , not what you get"
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" Infinate words come and go in the vast expance of my consciousness,
they are like moats of dust that dance in a beam of light shining though
a hole in the roof "
and when he was asked " who are You "
"If you try to confine me with your labels You shall confine yourself , you shall starve yourself of yourself . Confine me in your boxes of cold words and you shall bury Your "Self" in a Box of your own making .
I do not know who I am .
I am a astounding lucid confusion "
( Sufi poet Dru mi )
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In the quiet moments before dawn a song is sung , a song of joy for all to hear , it is a song of praise to the creator for the day to come ;
my soul hears the song as nature's aviators prepare for the days work , they sing praise for all they have , work without want and Love with all abandon , they flit hither and fro collecting and dropping seed that it may grow .
as the people stir and go about their way , did they missed the morning's song of praise , perhaps they miss the dawns calling , perhaps they miss what the creator calls them to do ?
As the swallows wing their way about the sky , they stop to rest near by , they speak to me with a gentle song , their meaning not lost ... May your day be beautiful my fellow aviators !
How I wish I was like you , flitting hither and fro serving all the world even those who do not know, with your love and praise for all that is ...
(Something original ;inspired by a Friend )
"Thank you for your inspiration ; and the wonderful person you are !"

"In all things of nature there is something of the marvelous." (Aristotle)

I am sometimes a wild KAT , sometimes a mild Kat , I often expresses a playful child-like wonder ! Rarely childish or selfish ! logical thinking , creatively motivated , a collector of truths "yours mine and others "; webbed together with knowledge of my inner self !
I love to laugh but sometimes hold it inside , just to see if your watching my eyes (where it cannot hide. I love playing games and sport , but never with your heart or mind !

I THINK "DEEPLY" THEREFORE I AM "with a light heart I look at the lessons from the past" , I revel in the present, I seek the future "adventures abound " for all hearts and souls ! " It is in the quiet moments before dawn that I hear the songs from my dreams ". Do you listen to your dreams ?

I am seeking the most Ellusive and beautiful Person , a Jane of all trades master of some , wild and gentil , self aware , carefree and careing ,... She is out there somewhere , Is it you ?
" The Principles of respect "
"Trust in the Ability of another " "Take interest in the point of view of another especialy when you dissagree "
" Be willing to recognize and own you part of any problem"
"Recognize and accept that others have feelings different than yours"
" UNIVERSAL PERSONAL RIGHTS "
" You have the Right to "Respect from other people "
You have the right to your needs , "Your needs are as important as others needs !
"You have the right to ask (not demand) that others respond to your needs !
" You have the right to Choose whether or not to respond to other's needs and expectations . "You have the right to have all your fealings , no matter how Negative . " You have the right to express your feelings If you dont violate the rights of anothers. "You have the right to show your abilitys, enjoy your achievements.

Lift someones Spirit today , and make every day beautiful!

Late night? or early morning? Coffee at starbucks ! ? !
\ open honest communication \ A walk on the boardwalk , or star gazing perhaps ?

Honest(playful) mental wrestling is ok ! ( as long as we both agree!)
( I apply the principles of respect ) Relaxed ,light heartedly - serious , all is okay !

O by the way; If your bold enough to write me first you may be bold enough to hold my attention .(hint)

Just a heads up I am not into the "dress to impress ", and "act" your very best , "try to hide" all THE HUMAN IMPERFECTIONS " THING !
After all our IMPERFECTIONS ARE BEAUTIFUL !

I am a recovering smoker (quit more than once ; still working on killing the cravings )... Occasionaly I have an E-cigarette ; It is so Cool to be able to taste- smell food and not have everything smell like an ash can ....

If you dont smoke or are quiting ,enjoy every moment without it ; I do .

If you read this far , you are Quite extrordinary !

I MAY choose to add , edit, or remove parts of my profile on a regular basis ,if you return tomarrow you may find something new !

WARM WISHES
KAT