Probably best to ask me if you want to know. I'm a middle aged man who has loved and been loved and lost. Not willing to be put down just yet, and I ain't past my sell by date either!!!

I'm told I scrub up well, and can be the perfect gent when called for, but I'm not so sure that's what most women want in reality. I've been accused of being too nice in the past, but at the same time it comes over as a bit boring, being nice. I don't know, but I like to keep in touch with my nice side.

"it's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice."

Anyway, I am Me, you'll either like me, or you won't. That's your choice!!!

I play guitar in a covers band, when we can get a booking. So an interest in music would be nice.

Not sure if I want a full blown relationship, I think it should be a see how we go thing at first. Im getting too old for silly mind games, and I ain't looking for that! Relationships should be about Respect and Support. If you have both of them for each other, anything is possible... but without one or the other, you're F**ked!!

Meet for a coffee, somewhere public, have a chat and see if we click. Its cheap and cheerful, and if you sit near the door, you have the option to make a quick gettaway.... however if everything else seem ok, you could see whether you should see each other again.