A picture is worth a thousand words, but talking in person helps to cut down on the thousands used to email.

Here's something to wrap your brain around.
Back in the 70's and 80's (yes, I do remember them) "Computer Dating" was portrayed on TV as the last resort for the desperate and lonely hearted, consisting of punch hole cards and large machines matching the holes. It was also portrayed as the guise for prostitution (think Les Nesman & WKRP) in order to hide escort services in a legal light. Now, attractive people who tire of the bar scene (and how less attractive those many become in the morning light without the beer goggles) and find fewer venues in the real world for meeting new prospects, use "Computer Dating" openly, and, in fact has replaced meeting up with friends at a bar after work with meeting online. Who would have thought???

I also didn't think anyone would be silly enough to pay for WATER in a bottle back then either.

I'm not looking for an exclusive relationship with an individual per say, but wouldn't rule out a very close connection with someone with open options. Ideally, start a friendship, to a friend with benefits, then go from there if things click.

I don't claim to be easy to read, nor complicated either, there just has to be some chemistry and similar open points of view to start anything. While some take my demeanor as "stand-offish" (more polite than how some may describe), I mostly just choose to distance myself from the obvious eventful drama that many seem to can't live without. Life isn't difficult, it's people who choose to make it seem that way.

Those who have gotten to know me can attest that I possess a refreshing, unique point of view to differing forms of relationships, and best get along with those who are Open in their views and actions, and not just talk.

I can honestly say, I am not in search of a "tradionial relationship" at this point in time, but rather those who shares a similar open viewpoint to take it from there.

First date...coffee (yes I looooove coffee...but tea would do too), some hopefully interesting conversation, and go from there. Promise nothing, expect nothing, then anything beyond that will be a pleasant surprise.