It's so time to re-vamp this!!!

Been away from this site for quite some time but not really away from the whole internet dating scene. I'm not going to try and sell myself in this blurb but tell you rather what I am looking for...

This whole bulls**t scene is a bit disgruntling. I've found it hard to actually get to know someone because the subject of sex comes up so quickly and often overpowers the whole conversation and is then the main focus. Being a scorpio, lol, I totally understand the importance of sexual compatablility but I'm tired of it being the main focus, lol. And pretend as you will that it's not what you're looking for but 90% of you are full of s**t. I seriously want to meet someone that wants to spend the time getting to know ME and not while getting to know 5 other ppl at the same time, waiting fot the 'perfect' girl to come along. Dude, its not going to happen!! Take the time to get to know me and if things work then they do, if they don't then they don't! Just don't feed me bulls**t :)

I am a single parent of a 9 yr old girl. She is my world so if dating someone that has a child is an issue for you, then I'm not your girl. I'm so not looking for a father figure for her though, she has 3 wonderful uncles that cover that ground perfectly, she is not lacking male influence, at all. Family is hugely important to me and I would do anything for them.

I'm very sarcastic and can be quite jaded. I've got my opinions and often like to verse them. Not that I don't like to listen to yours and often thrive on it if we disagree, lol. I appreciate a good debate and will sometimes take the underdog just to see what you've got say.

I'm a very independant woman and can take care of myself but am tired of going through life alone. I don't want someone to support me but someone that can carry themselves at the very least.

As far as music goes I can sing along to most songs on any radio station but if you ask me who it is or the title of the song I might be totally oblivious, lol. I like to read but the same goes for the author of the books, lol.

Anyway, this is just a little update to what I had previous... Just take time to get to know me, see if we clique. Nothing ventured nothing gained and I promise you have nothing to lose!!