have you ever realized that eventhough you know everything about yourself you can never find the right words to describe who you are? well, i'm pretty much having that issue right now. i guess rather than describing myself i might do better at describing what i believe in and let you decide from there.

i believe in hot food and cold drinks. i still believe that a man should open doors for all women. i believe in kisses that last for days and arguments that last for minutes. i believe that your word, honor, and respect mean everything. not all men and women are evil. friends DO NOT betray. staying in by the fire cuddled up watching a movie is a blessing, not torture. that i am a good person. saying i love you should be said without expecting a response. never quitting. staying healthy. that you should never disrespect your girl. home cooked meals. good people never get what they deserve. that a good man supports and loves his woman no matter what choices she makes and vice versa. that you never leave the one you love even when things seem at their worst, because brighter days could be right around the bend. that even when i'm 90 years old i'll still hold my wifes hand everywhere we go. that sometimes we need to remember all of the reasons we chose the person we are with.

people do make mistakes and can learn from them, if they really want to, and when a mistake is made u do everything in your power to make it right.

i guess i should add just a couple of things for good measure. if you have any doubts about your ability to be faithful, honest, trustworthy, or kind, please, don't waste our time. if you spend more time at clubs than you do your own house, consider cosmo magazine one of the great works of literature, then i'm probably not the one for you. just be honest with yourself before responding. thank you.

i am looking for a good mature woman that doesn't have to find herself, isn't just looking for a good time, respects herself and the way she looks, knows what she wants out of life, appreciates and realizes a good man when she has him. won't run away when things get tough, and is patient enough to build a relationship. please don't let this frighten you. i have made my mistakes in the past and have learned from them. i am far from a perfect... i just know what i want and like and refuse to settle, try to convince myself that someone fits my criteria, be hurt, disappointed, or blind again. love is for lovers, never let it go when you have it, because you may not find it again. once again, thank you, and pleeeaaasse, just be honest with yourself.

Probally go to a nice restaurant and talk, maybe catch a movie afterwards.