**UPDATE** -- **UPDATE** -- **UPDATE** -- **UPDATE**

I have recently met a very cool guy from this site. Hopefully things will continue to progress as well as they have been so far. I have chosen not to delete my profile, and I am still open to chatting because nothing is official just yet. I don't want to get ahead of myself. Wish me luck!



**NOTE** I am not a smoker and never will be. I shared ONE Cigar while in Mexico. Also, if you are only here to look at profiles and have no intentions of ever meeting anybody, please don't message me. I don't need any online chat buddies.

I am looking for someone who is also looking for a serious relationship and between the age of 23-30. I don't typically date guys my own age just because too many of them lack maturity. Feel Free to prove me wrong. Guys who go out to get drunk with their buddies every weekend don't impress me. I prefer someone who knows what they want out of life and isn't afraid to work hard to get it.

I've noticed that too many guys on here think they are being sly when it comes to specifying what they are looking for, but aren't really gaining anything. I'm not interested in guys who are pushing 30 and still don't know what they want out of their dating life or are still "finding themselves." Also, if you think I won't know or find out about the other chicks you have on the side...you're wrong. Keep fishing because I'm not into wasting my time.

I believe that taking your time while dating is good, but there has to be a common goal in mind for a couple to be sucessful. Although we don't like to admit it, attraction is a must when finding a partner. I no longer have any interest in meeting guys who have any sort of committment phobias, or have trouble with comparing everyone to their ex.

If you're the type who's only available on select nights when your buddies are busy or is looking for something casual, I'm not going to waste energy on you either. I'm not into dating multiple people and leaving things up to "seeing how things go." If you want things to work, you have to give it your best shot. If you have too many people on the go, you will only end up distracted and distant instead of focused on the one who matters. You have to take risks. Everyone gets hurt from time to time.

Family is very important to me, and should be important to the person I am with as well. If you aren't on good terms with your family, I doubt that we'll have many things in common. I value the closeness of my family, and enjoy their company. Family always comes first.

First dates should be something casual in order to get to know each other. Mini golf, coffee, or a leisure walk are always good for getting to know a person well. Movies should be avoided just because there is no oppertunity for interaction. Save that for the 4th or 5th date. Getting trashed is not classy. If you're half way there before we even meet up, there's no point.

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