Fellows I will not beat around the bush.I am very honest and want to be upfront.First of all I want to tell you alittle about me.well......I went through chemo from March 2006 until July of 2006 and beat non-hodgkins lymphoma.I have a clean bill of health.During my battle I was very strong and remained postive an wanted to do what I had to do to beat this ,which I am a single mom of a 12 year old son and he needed me.I only missed 5 days of work and remained working full time.I had alot of love and support from family,co-workers,friends and my patients.I had alot of faith which carried me through this.I was truly blessed.I am a very hard working,outgoing person who loves to laugh and enjoys the simple things in life.I am very postive in all situations and always look to the brighter side of things.I like to smile because I have alot to smile about.I have been on this site before along with others and I want to be straight up..........I am not looking for a negative person,someone who freshly got out of a relationship who is still not over their ex and on the rebound and someone who tells you he is divorced and lies on his profile about it and really isn't divorced.I am not looking for drama and ONE NIGHT STANDS.I am not looking for a friend with benefits.I am looking for a relationship some day.I am not looking for which I had experienced in the past on these sites for someone who tells you they love you and hasn't met or really hasn't got to know you to tell you those words.That takes time and please I am not looking for a stalker.I had met a few on these sites along with psycho's .PLEASE NO HEADGAMES!!!!!!!!!I am looking for a honest ,hard working man who wants a relationship when he meets the right girl,I want someone who likes to laugh and be goofy and doesn't take life to serious.Someone who is outgoing and can make me laugh uncontrolabably.It all boils down to is I want to meet someone who I can have a healthy relationship someday with .I also wanted to mention someone who will be a good role model for my son.I .ps............guys .........I like to watch sports .

My first date....I'm really open to because I am very outgoing ,so It doesn't matter.I know one first date I had in the past my date and I climbed a tree in a park and sat in the tree and ate pizza while we talked.That was fun.