Hey,

I've been on this site for awhile, and have been bouncing back and forth for the last couple of years between what I really want in the big picture, and what this site apparently has to offer. What I want is a stable relationship with some long term potential, but what I've regularly found and/or been presented with are women who want "flings". Seriously. Check out the number of you Victoria gals looking for long term. Eleven! That's how many a basic search just pulled up!!

So, I'm on here searching for the proverbial needle in a haystack because I'm a committed father, I work nights (but have the weekends off), and my friends tend to be married with kids or in long term relationships. And as they say, "birds of a feather" ...

Most of the women who know me consider me to be a "good catch". I'm respectful, honest, loyal, chill, family oriented, a good father, employed, physically fit, athletically capable, I age gracefully, and I'm mentally/emotionally stable ... a regular boy-scout, with a bit of an edge. I also have a creative side, and require a fair amount of intellectual stimulation or I begin to get bored and eventually start to climb the walls.

As for the ex situation; we get along good, but not too good. We help each other out with our son in relation to our schedules and lives, can be civil to each other and occassionally even joke abit, but she has since gotten married and while I could begrudge her, I'm much happpier since she left and so, with the added best interest of my son at heart, see absolutely no reason or point into holding onto old grudges.

As for what I'm looking for; I would like to find a woman who is fit, pleasing to the eyes, who is compassionate and genuinely cares about other people and the world as a top priority in her conduct, ie. has **real** class, and who wants to be in a stable relationship. Anyway, I don't want to go into too much detail here, and feel the qualitites that I've listed are the highest on the priority list, with everything else being negotiable, so I'll leave it at that.

If you think you might be my kind of gal, I'd be happy to hear from you, so feel free to drop me a line and we'll take it from there.

Cheers!