Looking for a man who is not so of the norm. One that isn't afraid of expressing, communicating, loving, laughing, living, and of an amazing connection with just one woman. I find myself drawn to chemistry between a man and a woman that is relative to each of us. For me that has been men with longer hair,(totally bald can be very sexy as well) with facial hair nicely kept, taller, huskier men with expressive eyes and an easy smile.

My eyes tell all if you know how to look. I love hard, expect the same in return. I'm not much of an edge dweller but do want to create memories together. I'm a forward moving person who generally doesn't care much for staying in the box. I like to discover new things, try to grow in who I am and don't like to stay stuck at one place in my life. I don't deal well with the attitude of 'if I don't do it or like it or agree with it then it must be wrong, shot down or insulted'. I believe, as each of us request to be honoured for our wants/desires/needs/likes/dislikes, that we must offer the same to others. Being different doesn't equate being wrong. We all are human..some of us do the human thing revolving around ourselves, some of us do the human thing revolving around others, some of us do the human thing attempting to do a balancing act between those two...but as 'adults' I'm sure we all are quite capable of making the choices that work best for each of us and if not, then lessons are meant to be learned. Simple.

I am a rare mix of mostly country with a little flare of the city. I also am a balance between alternative thinking and not so alternative...lol. What I mean is that I am Level II Therapeutic Touch Certified, a Certified Ear Candler, and a Certified Personal Support Worker, which means I love to help people to heal and be the best they can be within what their abilities to be so are. I am also a spiritual person who is very interested in Quantum Physics and intuition and believe things come to us for reasons that when we are present in our lives, will be made known to us. I also though, am not obsessed with any of it. I just enjoy the knowledge of it and the ability to help for those who are open to it.

I love club/freestyle/house dance music..it always moves me to dance. I do love new country as well and several other types of music. Until the end of 2007, for 25 yrs I had a horse or two. Still have all my tack and saddle and would love to buy another one but not till I can keep it at home. Having that, has been a life long dream. I also love dancing and have also always wanted to do ballroom dance lessons. I find pleasure in simple things....beautiful sunset, birds, dogs playing, dads and kids playing, smiles, laughter....Also, I am not of the skinny minny variety. I am a medium sized woman who would love to meet someone who enjoys working out. Have all the equipment at home, now just need the motivation!!I am huge on respect, communication, being accountable and closeness. Please understand, as we are all different and unique, that I cannot be with anyone who hunts. If you wish to contact me it is only fair that you have recent pictures of yourself that you can be clearly seen in..face and body. Sorry, but I do not drive into the city. I live north of Stouffville and at some point in the not too distant future I would love to move a little further north.

Don't offer me flowers, don't give me candy, don't promise me the moon...just allow me to be me.....open yourself to the gift that I am...as you will be to me....don't roll your eyes to the occasional insecurity or silliness that sets in my head....listen with your heart when I ask for it..mine will always be there for you...embrace me for me...mistakes, triumphs, laughter, tears, loving and fears....why else would you be with me.

OMG!!! When did 'baby, let me see your tits' become a greeting??? If the BEST you have to offer is nothing but sexual innuendos and come on's...do you think maybe the reason you are still single is your complete lack of originality. That it may represent that you demand your needs and wants be heard and honoured and shows no respect for the other person?? I seek much, much more depth and substance then that. I am a very sexual person, and very comfortable with my sexuality but its not offered up to every Tom,****and Harry that bellows at me....get over yourselves pllleeeaaasse.

Have fun!!!..........games are for children.......if playing them is what you're into, kewl, lots of game players on here.....I'm not one of them....

p.s. Not saying this is wrong but I have no interest in being a 'beer and the boys' or 'weekend sports' widow....so you can't give me what I seek if your weekends priorities are spending time with the boys or chasing little white balls around. Balance is key in a relationship, my partner being gone most of every weekend is not balance for both people, only one.

I would like us both to be in each other's space, feel how we feel together, talk, laugh and get to know if we both would like a second one.