I have been told that I'm very easy to talk too and I'm also easy going....a go with the flow type. I'm just checking what kind of interest there is on this site but what I'm really looking for is a soulmate for life. Someone to share all of life's little pleasures with. :) I am divorced (4yrs) and have my kids every other week but they are getting older now and need me less so I'm starting to look for someone for myself to share life's experiences with. Want to chat? I enjoy many different activities and would also be interested in learn some new things with the right person.

So I would like to first off thank for taking a look at my profile. I will try to keep it short as we can get into more or the details with later conversations. As I look back I realize that I have been married most of my life and now I feel a little like a fish out of water since my divorce. I have been dating a little but have found some really shallow and selfish people out there more than thoughtful caring people. Here is the challenge...If your real then contact me but if your not please pass me by. There must be someone sort of normal out there for me? I am ready to play, laugh, party, relax, travel and be someone's best friend and lover. Trust is a must for me and I know it works both ways so I am willing to prove myself to the right person. As for describing myself, I would have to put myself in the category of your all around nice guy. I believe in respecting others and treating them as I would like to be treated. I enjoy the outdoors, sports, festivals & music. I have a very optimistic attitude and tend to go with the flow as I seem to have fun no matter what I’m doing if I enjoy the people I’m with. I have 2 teenagers daughters and a 14 year old son who are my buds and we have a lot of fun together from riding rollercoasters at Great America, ATV trips up north or downhill skiing. They are all athletic, smart, friendly and cool kids that spend every other week with me. The ideal person I’m searching for is easy to get along with and generally happy. I am looking for someone who is self confident but to the point of being stuck up. Someone who is as passionate about life and being partners as I am and someone who a sense for adventure. Someone who likes to spend time together & laugh till our bellies hurt but can also able to be on their own. I want someone who is responsible, family oriented, spontaneous, fun, trustworthy and honest.

This pretty much defines me:

Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those that matter don't mind.

In short......just be real to yourself and others. :)

If your much the same I would love to hear from you!