I find it interesting after reading many of the profiles that there are so many who list what they don't want. Maybe there are a number of emotionally unhealthy men on this site. I must say, that as this is internet, one never knows who they are really talking with. There are several terms that one can choose that makes reference to what type of relationship they seek. Some write "long term" or "friends" or "dating" and etc, but isn't it interesting that many write they are not interested in an intimate encounter. Is not intimacy the true basis of a relationship. Initimacy is not restricted to sex. And sex in itself is important in a relationship. There will always be dishonest people. Probably each person here has been dishonest or been involved with someone who is dishonest. I find that I really want to give and receive love. That is not something that I can find out on this keyboard. Ah, choosing a person, based on typed words is difficult, at best. My experience tells me that if one lies or cheats and/or can't trust or what ever character flaws they possess, they assume that everyone else has "it" also. With all of this said, I find that I am not sure of what type of relationship I desire. Therefore, communicating via this service, then dating, possibly, then allow my thoughts and intuition to help me from that point serve me better than limiting my options. I agree with anyone who believes that if a man or woman has to define the nature of a relationship describing what they want in terms of just sex, is an emotionally unhealthy person. Probably they are insecure and they definitely live in emotional fear. Each lady on this site has something beautiful to offer. I am betting that, if open and one lives in the moment, good things will happen.

Ah, first date, yes. There are many choices, but maybe meeting in a place where you are comfortable. We would do best meeting where we can chat. I am really open to your input on this one.