I am not self seeking, would love to give more than I ask for, looking for someone who has the same values???? We all have problems, it's how we deal, and handle our problems, that make us different, and the person we are today, life's to short to play games!

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."~Ralph Waldo Emerson~

We are all looking for the same thing, a solid connection with another person who brings out the best in us and vice versa. Seeking someone who is interested in friendship, sharing and seeking out new experiences; learning while laughing and having fun is key. Someone who just 'gets it' and most importantly 'gets you.'

"Success in love consists not so much in finding the one person who can make you happy, as in escaping the many who could make you miserable." Aristotle

"Be ever so nice and kind to everyone you encounter, one never knows you may be entertaining angels unaware"
To be at home is to find youself with thoes who put your heart at ease....


The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life’s betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.~~Oriah Mountain Dreamer

IF YOU HAD ME ALONE...LOCKED UP
IN YOUR ROOM FOR TWENTY FOUR HRS
AND WE COULD DO WHATEVER YOU WANTED
WHAT WOULD YOU DO WITH ME? TELL ME
IN A MESSAGE...CUZ IT'S A SECRET...
THEN REPOST THIS ON YOUR PROFILE...
YOU MIGHT BE SUPRISED WITH THE
RESPONSES YOU GET.

Perehaps, we could meet, talk, coffee, dinner, Movie, Bike Ride (Harley)-------!!!------- Put this on your
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---!!!!!!!!!!!!-- know someone in the
-------!!!------- armed forces or to
-------!!!------- show your support
-------!!!------- and respect to all
-------!!!------- our troops.

God Bless Them All xxx