Well it seems I finally got a catch. And a great one at that. Hopefully I won't be mounting this one on the wall. To all of you that I have made friends with I hope that we continue our friendship. And all of you that were/are interested you have three options, be friends, run like hell, or wait........but on that one let me add that you might be waiting a very long time. I don't forsee an end in sight, nor do I dare say that I want there to be one. I have what I have only dreamed of and imagined so with that being said thank you to all of you that have touched my heart. And may you know that you will forever have that spot in my heart!!! I wish that each and every one of finds exactly what is that you have only dreamed of and imagined!!!!!!!!

*************************************************************************************One more thing. I'm not good it seems at responding to messages the way that I should. Don't take it as disinterest. I am simply the single mother of two children that works full-time. I live a busy life. I enjoy and appreciate the mail that I do get on here, and I do try my best to respond as soon as I can. But if I have over looked you (I usually have a toddler climbing on my lap to fight me for the computer) then I am sorry, just send me another message.
#####################################################################################It's time to add on again. And this time let's get a few things straight. I AM NOT on here to play games, or for sex. I want a relationship, a real true life long realationship. IF you don't have them same interest stop reading here and move on. I am a very nice and sincere person. I give my all in all that I do, and in all relationships that I have. I can be your best friend, and the love of your life all in one. Contrary to what most of you seem to think, I don't get tons of mail on here or anywhere else for that matter, and I don't play the ones that I do get. Either there is interest and a conection or there is not. I know that I often see myself as not being good enough for those that I would wish to pursue. I do however have my lines drawn.
*************************************************************************************Let's see I could probably go on forever here. For starters I am a fun person, with a wonderful heart. I like to go out and have a good time. I also enjoy spending the day at home with those that are dear to me. I have been through alot. That is not to say that I base everyday or even the decisions that I make on that. But what I have been through does make who I am today. I like who I have become, and therefor I would not change a thing. I am looking for a guy that is not only a gentleman, and a sweetheart. But someone that knows how to let lose and have a good time. Don't contact me if you think that both of us being divorced or seperated counts as us having something in common. I am an honest person. I love to have a good time. And I love the simple things in life. Like the smell of the air on a cool spring or summer evening. Sitting on the porch watching the kids play. I like to play sports, and watch them in person. I am not much for observing them from the TV screen. I don't like needy clingy people. I love to see people smile and be happy. I have two children and I would like at least one more (If mine don't drive me crazy by then). I want a man that can stand on his own two feet. I man that knows how to make a living and plan for the future is a must. I like intelligent conversations as much as I enjoy a stupid one. I am a fun, loving, compassionate, sincere person. I can be sensitive at times. I have been through a lot, so if you don't have good intentions, don't waste my time. I know what I want, that doesn't mean that there isn't room for a few changes. I am just not going to stop short of the gold. I look forward to talking to anyone that feels that they might be a match for me. Let's start with friends!!! Isn't that where all good things start anyways? As mentioned before I have two wonderful children!!! And I am open to anyone that does or does not have kids!

It depends, but something memorable. Something special. The Melting Pot is my favorite plave to eat. But not for a first date. I mean really three hours sitting with someone you have never meet before....not me. It would have to be something or somewhere that can help ease the nerves, and anxiety of the first initial meeting. If that day ever comes we can talk about it!!!!