I'm a single sole custodial father of 3 and have been so for the past 9+ years although 2 are in university and only my youngest is still at home until September when he also goes to university.

I'm well educated -- B.A., LL.B., M.B.A. -- but by no means a snob nor requiring my love interest to be also well educated as opposed to naturally intelligent.

As much as I like sex, I'm NOT interested in casual relationships.

At this point in my life, I'm looking for FOREVER.

I don't want to be a prude, but if you are showing only your breasts or ass on your profile, I don't think we are on the same path.

I desire a real woman who is worth the investment of time and energy.

Someone with substance that is deep and open minded.

I'm thin -- not skinny. I'm 6'2", 190 lbs. and big boned.

I think simply going for a coffee is as non-committed as you can get so it's not my style. You need to invest more if it's going to work. I've never had a date which was not fun even if it didn't lead to anything. What I like to do is entertain the woman I am with so she knows all of my attention is hers so that usually means in my home, but for the first date at least a few hours of conversation in a quiet private booth somewhere over a couple of drinks makes sense.

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married