I judge a woman by the color of her heart; not by the color of her skin. The question about "ethnicity", itself, bores me. I am an "islander" who grew up overseas. I enjoy being with people of all "types" so long as they are respectful and not limited by closed-mindedness. Good hygiene, honesty, respect fulness, communication and frankness are qualities that are valued. With me, attention begets attention. I am passionate in what I chose to do. I am either "hot" or I am "cold"; I think being "warm" (not hot nor cold) is either being untruthful (masking hidden feelings) or being in denial. If one cannot do something wholeheartedly, one is better off not doing it at all.

The woman, for me, is one who takes pride in her femininity and is unfearful of flaunting it. A woman who knows how to get her way through "softness" and gentleness will be more "convincing" than one who wishes to be loud and "pushy"; although, admittedly, I, sometimes, deserve a "kick in the butt". However, I like a woman who aggressively pursues what she wants (especially if it's me... Lol). It's very confusing to say "what I'm looking for" because it really depends upon on the blend of personalities. Physically, I find a wide range of so-called "body types" attractive (Anita Baker, Halle Berry, Angelina Joule.. To Carol Lyn). It all, basically, depends upon how the lady carries herself. Of course, she must be sensual, affectionate, attentive, loving and have a great sense of humor.

I'd just like to add...
SInce I have a photo on file; it's only fair that I can see your RECENT photo as well. After all, that's only fair. Other than that...Go for it!

Basically, the first date would be a "get acquainted" date; meaning meeting somewhere quiet where we can enjoy good conversation and if, there's "chemistry" just go from there, make plans, future date plans or simply remain together and do other things/go other places together.