
UPDATED 6-30-08
I'm happily married in an open marriage, that does not mean I'm looking to get laid at every opportunity.
I am looking for
friends . (Was looking for more but it seems that the male brain can only do one at any given time, so I gave up on the benefit part)
My profession requires me to be a geek (not a nerd) and I love my work. I work with guys all the time, feel comfortable around them and truly enjoy driving them mad.

I am a true friend, one that you can count on, talk to and one that will answer your questions honestly ( ok maybe not always).
I am everything a true Gemini should be, fun, serious, a little wild and then just the perfect lady. Not into drama, I have no mental illness. I am intelligent and if you can't keep up a conversation or have your own opinions then you will loose my interest FAST. I have to know you to become friends, that means you have to be able to keep a conversation, mostly on e-mail because I don't like talking on the phone (I know not the typical female, LOL), don't use the IM outside of this site (there are too many "strange" people out there and I hate to change my screen name all the time)Love a good flirt, which I consider an art. Most guys think that means to say "damn you look so sexy", if thats what you think, I'm sorry but that doesn't do it for me. Like I said its an art, so give it your best shot! I love everything thats off the beaten path, try new things. What would it be? I don't have a clue right now, maybe a new club, a sailplane ride, helicopters, hot air balloons, fried pickles, learning to dance (remember I am a nerd) it could be anything.
If given a choice:
I have tequila instead on wine.
fried green tomatoes instead of French cuisine (unless in France)
go dance instead walking at the beach (unless we build a sandcastle)
classic rock instead of R&B
yes to camp fires no to camping
Truth or dare- hmmm not sure yet..
I like to find a friend, partner in crime, buddy, someone to have a great time with.
I can be the one to hang out with until you find your "true love", so give it a try. [b Friendship with a woman, what a challenge! /b]

I am not here to find love,,or a one night stand. Have love, and keeping it. Tried the one night stand and didn't care for it.
I do work long hours thru the week, responding may take awhile,,, Husband is the snake charmer in the pic,,his profile is bubba241,,(and he does keep me satisfied

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We attend as many POF events as time allows, together and separately,, this is a great way to meet new friends an party with established ones,, if you can go to any of these,,you just might find a great friend or two.

Don't send me your ph# (unless you want Bubba to call), IF, I want to call you I'll ask for it. I also DO NOT use any Instant Messenger or outside email.


Do you think you can email here enough to convince me you are a friend I would want to meet??