Ok, pull up a chair + Ill hunt around in the old brain for the right words to woo + wow you! Erm Im struggling already! This is a tricky biz! How does one do this without sounding like a plonker?? Right what I need is a sip of wine...ok here we go! Im reasonably sporty, do a fair bit of exercise, (but not fanatical!) love the outdoors and getting out and doing things! I wouldnt be honest if I said looks didnt matter as I think a relationship has to have 'zing', but I do think though this is merely the icing. Its the person you are inside thats what really makes someone attractive. For me integrity is right up there. I like someone I can be a bit silly with, someone that can just wrap me in a big hug after a hard day knowing no words are necessary, someone that cares about others, someone that has laughter lines and someone I can trust implicitly. Me? OOh thats harder to write about!Well I guess I hope I can offer the same qualities. Im loyal, honest, friendly, am considerate and kind and at 37 can still have a good old pillow fight! :-) Ive just recently moved to Tokyo so anyone in the vicinity ...... ??

Oooh first dates! Should be light and fun! Its the chance to learn more about each other and just enjoy each others company. A picnic, a bright and friendly cafe for a hot chocolate or glass of wine, something relaxed and easy going in an open friendly environment.