A real easy going guy with a great sense of humor - i can serious when need to be, but enjoy making others laugh - am willing to make myself the brunt of the joke if thats what it takes. Looking for someone who is all round fun to be with. I like someone who is confident in themselves and who doesn't play games. Looking for someone who has a spark to them that I will know when I see it - hard to describe! I
No drama or head games wanted. Who knows where things will go. I just feel like i want to find that one person who is my companion, best friend, lover - someone who i think of when she is not around and who i can't wait to kiss when i see her next. If you are a laugher, which then always leads to smiling, then that will win me over.
I can talk about most subjects and carry on a conversation. I have opinions on topics but will never hold it against someone if they view something differently. Opinions vary (as the late Patrick Swayze said). I am non argumentative and can discuss differences rather than yelling. I am a good judge of character, I think, due to working many years prior in hospitality management - you really get to see many different personalities in the industry and thus, i think it hones your people radar HA.
I am a stable person. You have to be content with yourself first before being with someone else. I believe in chivalry - it's not dead yet, it's just smelling like it. But alas, the doors will be held for you :) I want an equal..I never have and never will treat a woman as subordinate in a relationship. I have lived on my own for a while so i can cook, clean, and do both of laundry and ironing HA HA So a mommy for me is not required. I can even dress myself, but being partially colorblind, i do need some help shopping. Yeah, like that will be hard to find :)
**HUGE BONUS POINTS for a great kisser. That is my weakness and i could spend hours cuddling, kissing hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm perfect freezing winter day activity.
Big bonus if you are an NFL fan, but no penalty of points if you are not :) I don't do the bar/club scene at all (never have) due to working in the business in the past. So I have not tried to meet anyone in that environment. I have bartended in a unique setting - if your good, i may tell you when we meet. ;) I am not in hospitality anymore but definately have alot of stories from those years - saw basically everything and chalked it all up to experience.
I just recently coming back to POF (a month ago) after taking a year or so off. I hope you have all had fun in your searches.
Most profiles on here say the same thing - looking for someone to connect with, meet for coffee, no head games etc.... - I think this is standard as who wants to meet someone who you don't connect with or wants drama and head games. If you are original, then message me. Originality wins points

You will never be short on laughter with me - and i think Dave Chappelle is hilarious.
Wine and a quiet place for conversation. Some place that sets the mood for conversation and brings out your true self. Who knows where things will lead!!!! Its up to us to determine at that time! :) I prefer to meet than to play email tag - its the only true way to see someone's personality - in person.