hi,im susan i am 48 and live in waterloo,iowa.
as you can see by my pictures that im a silly ,playful person.i tend to think out of the box,as well as try to be creative.which i think is ok.although i am a serious person as well.i am truly looking for a man that is that way too.if you have any questions fell free to email me.
although i am not finding what im looking for.i think as we get older it is harder to find that right one.its not that were picky ,its because life is moving faster these days and we dont have time to make mistakes in our choice.so we just dont settle,and im not.i deserve what im looking for.although i dont want to let one get past me that would be right for me,i realize that too.
here is what im not looking for.im not a country person,im a city women through and through.i dont party i had my share in the past.i dont smoke and perfer not to be with a smoker,unless you respect my surroundings.i dont like sports and do not want a sports fanatics,i find them very boring. i raised my kids and dont want to raise more so i perfer your kids be grown.also im not into married men.its wrong,as well as why are you on here if you are married.why did you make a commitment to go ahead and break it.just shows your character.you have none.also my other turn off on a man or anyone with that being said.fanny packs are so not wanted on a man,nor are sweats,yuky,lol neither is cartoon characters on clothes.lol just think it looks awful.lol
so with that said here is what im all about.i am a sweet,caring spontanous,easy going women with a good personality,and down to earth.im silly and flirtatous as well.and loves to joke around and be silly too.
i love art, and to be creative,i love taking pictures i took the ones on my profile.i love music like the blues,jazz,70s rock and easy listening,folk,gospel,not in this new crap though.i find myself learning about new artist every now and then.my friend turned me on to a singer/song writer named greg brown ,hes really good .i love his voice and the lyrics he come up with.
i also love antiques shops,and museaums,out of the way destinations.nature,parks.cafes,people watching,reading just alot of things.
i am a conservative,and enjoy a lively debate.it gets my jucies going.im into worldly events/politics as well.
i do attend a church service once a week.and looking for a man with some morals.
i have 2 grown boys 30 and 26 and their both married.the oldest has two beautiful daughters,my grandaughters.their sweet.i see them once in awhile, but have lots of time to spend with a decent man.
gentlemen im not perfect but im real and not fake,and that says alot these days.also i am a somebody worth knowing.
heres a poem or a quote i wrote its part of whom i am,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Soar like a bird,,,,,
Sail like a ship on the ocean seas,,,,,
Smell the sweet breezes of life,,,,,and
Saturate your heart with love,,,,, :fishing

well usally the first time you meet a strange person your a bit nervous.so i think some place like a coffee house is a good place.not only do you get to meet and talk in a non threatning place.see where it goes and such.you also get to sip on a fantastic cup of coffee,unless you dont like coffee well have a ice cold pop.you get the picture.then if you fell comfortable then go out for dinner.but i think communication is the total key to forming a relationship.