Please read ALL of the the profile before sending a message..for your sake and mine. After being on here for far too long now, think a change is needed. Still a single dad, and still have two kids ( took some self control), but am an empty nester as of September. Recently started a new job which I really enjoy. I initially was on here looking for long term, but have changed that to friends, mainly due to the fact that being single since '93, have forgotten how to play the dating game. I am not into the bar scene at all, but do enjoy some cold ones, especially on the deck on warm summer days, preferably with friends. Also enjoy a puff on my downtime, so would be great if you did too,(optional) cause I don't plan on changing that. I enjoy the waterfront, and cruising the harbour occasionally with one of my buddies on his boat, and would be nice not to be a third wheel. Generally I'm a fairly laid back person who doesn't like drama, to control or be controlled. Life is too short. Hope this gives you some idea what I'm about, but if you want to know more...ASK!

PS: I believe friends CAN fall in love, so I am leaving that door open.

Enjoy each others company, and let the chips fall where they may.