Time to get a little serious--I don't seem to be getting anywhere being casual. I am loooking for a woman 46-60 who if not young--acts young. No offense if you do not fall into the following categories--thin, athletic, slender, average but everyone should know what everyone else expects. I am active physically and have been told (more than once that I don't act my age). lol. I'm looking for that special woman that can put a twinkle in my eye and a smile on my face when she walks in the room and I promise to try and do the same. Yes--I do smile--I just freeze up when a camera is present. My friends say that my constant smiling or laughing makes them think I have been "up to something"--I must admit they are usually right--I do like to be a bit of a sh-t disturber. I like a certain amount of routine but also like doing things on the spur of the moment. I "clean up" well but prefer casual. Having friends/family over to the house or going to their places is more fun for me than going out to some fancy dinner. Operas and ballets have always been conducted without my participation and will continue to do so. It is not all about looks but there does need to be some initial attraction on my part--so a picture is a must. I bit the bullet--no reason you can't. I am honest to a fault(don't ask if you don't want to hear the answer), appreciate punctuality, and will be dependable, protective and loyal for all times. Like children and pets(reptiles excluded). Lets not waste each others time--I have had a couple of "conversations" that were going to lead to an actual meeting--then nothing. My hopes and time are valuable--I assure you I will assume yours are too. I have been told that I have a great sense of humour and am considered a good kisser. I feel I am a great kisser but am willing to let you make the final decision. I am at present a smoker. I am a considerate smoker--always outside and always downwind of non-smokers--but a smoker none the less. I know this is a "deal breaker" for some people but I didn't want to hide the fact.

I would prefer to talk to the other person before having a first date. We could decide on something that would make us both comfortable. I do not drink coffee but would agree to a "coffee" meeting. I don't think Timmys is a good place to have any sort of privacy--it would be nice to have a conversation that isn't overheard by half the neighbourhood. I am flexible and would agree to Timmys if that's what is required to put my date at ease.