I am a professional working in NYC and live in the Red Bank area. I am bright, hard working,very fit, goodlooking, honest and loyal (to a fault). I'm looking to meet someone to share similar interests: travel, film, music, theater, museums, a little dancing or just good conversation. I love: the beach, beach vacations, a good film, concerts, clubs on occasion, mostly dramatc theater, the arts in general and well-crafted music. I like good restaurants and going out with friends but also enjoy just the occasional Saturday night on the couch watching a good video and a glass of wine.
At first what you see is not always what you get with me; I mean it takes a little while to find out who I really am. I am the real deal but just tend to go a little slow with opening up to new people and honestly am kind of selective about the people who I interact with. But I tend to make friendships and relationships that endure once I make a connection with the right person. I'm looking for someone who is genuine, insightful, literate, worldly and fun. I place a high value on intelligence, openmindedness, self-awareness, and honesty. You should believe that you are physically and emotionally attractive but can also be somewhat demure. I also prefer someone who is or has been somewhat monogamous. My ideal match would be someone who talks easily because I don't,not at first anyway - I really like to listen to a girl just go on and on and be spontaneous about herself. It's important that she be emotionally stable, self-confident yet tolerant and open. She also should like working out, going out, hanging out and steppin' out - I really enjoy good music at some of the local clubs, but the museum and theater stuff is fun too. My life has changed significantly over the last few years, so a bit of fatalism and understanding that living for today is a good thing; have fun, do what feels right, trust your instincts and just go for it. By the way - sexy is good, cooking is also good, dancing is good too, a Yankee fan would be far out and did I mention sexy......

the beach, where else?!!!!! but anything would be great with the right person.